What impression does the abusive tongue of a parent leaves on the child's mind?

It plants seeds of anger in the child's heart.


The more the child is abused in that manner the more the parents water those seeds.


As an adult the child's heart will be choked with anger unless he/she learns how to cultivate love there in it's stead.





We have no control over the actions of others.


Hopefully, the parents have fulfilled their responsibility of teaching their children the basics of Islam (if not thru their own actions, at least then thru formal teaching). That way the child will have word of Allah swt and the hadith of the prophet saw to guide them past their parents' bad example.





What impression does the abusive tongue of a parent leaves on the child's mind?
That it's okay to be abusive. Or that it's okay to be abused. Neither are okay, and it follows a child for their entire life living with parents that are abusive to them, their siblings or even eachother. A protective and safe environment is what a child needs. And a smile always gave a far more lasting impression, that it's good to be kind.What impression does the abusive tongue of a parent leaves on the child's mind?
A very good Q sis,


There could be endless things that the parents can leave in a child's mind when they use abusive language.Children r innocent %26amp; this innocence will lead to hatred, anger %26amp; a very unsafe personality as he /she grows older. I would say to parents to watch wat they say if they want good off springs coz a man only gets wat he plants in return. We can't expect sweet grapes by planting bitter guard.


May Allah give us %26amp; our coming generations the behavior of our beloved prophet(s).
You are teaching them how to act towards others (so it's how they will treat their children and/or spouse). You are also teaching them that that's how they're meant to be treated....so they will allow themselves to be treated that way by a spouse or significant other. You are breaking their spirit and stealing their self esteem so they will lack motivation in their lives (both in school and career). You are teaching them that anger and hostility are how you deal with life and life's problems. You are teaching them to be either withdrawn (to avoid abuse) or outwardly hostile (acting as you act). The effects of your actions are wide and varied depending on the character traits of the child. You are NOT helping them to grow into happy and productive adults, that part is sure.
I think the child would start to use words like his parents use more often and earlier than most kids do. It would also make him feel that it is the right thing to do, since kids are not mature enough to know what's right and what's not. It will in some way encourage them to use the words, and won't make them feel too guilty.



I say it leaves a big impression on the child. It gives them the Perception that what their parents are doing is okay....teaching them unhealthy Communication skills. It could also have an effect on the way they interact with others, they could be timid and shy feeling they'll get the same reactions from piers and friends as they do from their parents. So yes...I think it leaves a bit of a scar.
well it will have a impact on there life but it is not only the parents who impact on the child the environment he or she lives i the culture and the school most children tend to learn from school more then home


well i know my parent don't swear much or not the bad swearing words but i swear a lot (i mean a lot) this is not bcz my parent to or any one else in the family.
The poor child never learns the proper way to communicate. You can't get everything done by cursing or screaming. If yelling is all they hear that's all they'll do or they will grow up not expressing themselves because they're afraid of being screamed and cursed at more so they'll never stand up for themselves.



well. it repeats its self. My mother said stuff to me that i didn't like and now i catch myself saying it to my daughter, I try to catch myself before i say it, cause i HATE when it was said to me! But i don't abuse my child.
makes the kids abusive towards other kids too





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i do what i want i say what i want to who i want and i don't care...that's the impression it left on me, oh and that im a piece of crap whore.
The child is going to learn abusive words either from the parent or outside the home. So regardless who the child learns the words from, its going to happen no matter what in life !i
Mental scars..self esteem issues..anger and hatred coz abuse makes u sometimes think that yr parents really hate u ,and they r the ppl who suppose to love u no matter wut .
They become Shia'a






The child will copy the parent and swear like mad. Lol.
My mother yelled at me ONCE,shes been missing since


I dont know anything about where she is tho
I would say it leaves a scar, not an impression. That about sums it up
The child will curse another child...






What you teach them is what they will teach others





And the cycle continues
children learn what they live.
Scars that never heal





Poor sense of self worth





Lasting pain
they don't love me