Is it normal after being brain washed by parent to have an abortion ( due to age ) ?

to think about being a mother/ having a baby/ being pregnant, 24/7?


Its 1 and a half years later and i still think about this 24/7, i hate my self for doing what my dad said i had to do, and believing him that i could never do this. Is this normal? What should i do?Is it normal after being brain washed by parent to have an abortion ( due to age ) ?
Having an abortion is not the easy way out, as you have experienced. It is very normal to have these feelings of guilt. And my friend, it may never go away- however, there is forgiveness for an abortion, and if you can email and would like to talk, feel free to email me, I have counseled women that have gone through what you have. An abortion is something that effects the woman, even though some say that this is not the case.Is it normal after being brain washed by parent to have an abortion ( due to age ) ?
Your feelings are normal. You could talk to a counselor or maybe you could try to be a birth control advocate and try to imprint the importance of birth control to your peers. That may help you relieve your grief in knowing that you are helping other girls not have to go through the same thing you did. Let them know how awful you feel and that getting pregnant at such a young age isn't responsible. Getting pregnant again isn't the solution until you are okay with yourself for this. You won't be able to cover it up by trying to have a baby. You would also have to deal with more ridicule from your dad and that isn't what you need.
Yes, it's normal. How can you not think about it? It was a rough time for you...but you can't let what happened in the past prevent you from living your life today. If you need to talk about it, find a counselor, but try to just realize that what happened happened, and there's nothing to change it now,so dwelling on it will not help. It's good to never forget, though, it will help you to never make that mistake again. Try to find other things to occupy your mind, and that will also help you to move on.
You need to reach out to a professional counselor. You absolutely must get help. Make an appointment with your family doctor and discuss this with him/her. Ask for all the help you can get-- a referral to a good counselor and maybe a prescription to help you move on from this tragic experience.
its normal to feel like crap after getting an abortion... sorry tehres not really a better term thats the truth. mine was about 2 years ago almost and not a day goes by where i don't think about it


you could always try talking to someone? counselling to help you get over this etc.





im sorry you had to go through this, i wish you all the best!


hollyy
its beyond normal.... when you abort you have a sense of what if on your mind at all times because that was a part of you and if you're human you're supposed too and it will always be there in the back of your mind if you try to forget it.
Check out this website. There are many people that have your problem. I am so sorry he made you do that. Also call a doctor in your area, and see if they have support groups. Many larger areas have them. Good-luck and best wishes!!
yes...pregnant women that abort think about it a lot...