Hopefully your parent has been prescribed medication and they are compliant in taking their meds. Many clients cope well with life.
But if they refuse to take theirs meds it is miserable.
Also, if they are self-medicating through drugs and/or alcohol it is even more miserable.
So if they are complaint in their meds, help them keep up on the doctors' appointments.
If they aren't complaint, please get counseling to help you deal with this. My guess is you are a minor living at home; some resources may be talk to your school counselor, contact NAMI, www.nami.org and even consider calling Child Protective Services if your health and well being are at risk.
Take good care of yourself. You are in a hell of hard situation.How do you deal with a Bi-polar parent?
Find a good Support Group for this.
It could give you some good pointers. Besides that, they will understand where you are in this battle with Bi-polar.How do you deal with a Bi-polar parent?
It's not easy. They should be on medication.
my advice is just when she/he is in there mood swing just take it calmly, r they severe bi-polar? Some severe bi-polar patients will have weird thoughts and delusions if not on proper meds. Good luck to u and your parent i know its not easy and it emotional for the children to go through.
you should always be there for them and make sure that they know that they can always come to you to talk about their feelings. As for medication, its fine if your ok with the risk. My aunt is bipolar, but her medication sometimes makes her either hyper-active or suicidal.
well MY MOM AND AD were Bipioler
Later found out I was to!!!!! never got along with parents but now I know why!
They passed away But I least I still got along with them after I grew up and realized.
set one to ';+'; and one to ';-';
and watch the sparks fly!
You cleave them in half, and keep the better part.
Become tri-polar.
Saturday, January 23, 2010
What do I do being a married single parent that does not want to harm his children with a divorce?
I have been married for 11 years and have 2 7 year olds. I feel like I have become a married single parent. Talking doesn't work and we almost filed divorce over a year ago at my request but I decided not to. Anyone have the same issues.What do I do being a married single parent that does not want to harm his children with a divorce?
Do everything it takes to make your marriage work first. Just talking isn't going to help, though a lot of people think that is the cure all for everything. Show her that you want to make this work. What part did you play, for the marriage to get where it is today? It takes two.What do I do being a married single parent that does not want to harm his children with a divorce?
Married/Single/Father???
Ya know, that just ain't right!
FIX IT ONE WAY OR THE OTHER!
Ok, the older your children are, the more painful it will be for them. For their good, do it while they have time for their memories to fade. And remember to clarify that you both still love *them*, and it's not their fault. Your love for your children will not change. Good luck. :)
I know my answer is not very detailed and it's short, but I was the child of divorced parents, and the older you are the more painful it is. Trust me.
My parents got divorced when i was young and although it hurt at the time, i soon realised that it was for the best, not only were my parents much happier but it also had a positive effect on my sister and I, no longer did we have to deal with the arguments or put up with the tension.
It really was the best thing all round!!!!!!!!
Divorce should be the last option, but in some cases cannot be avoided and sometimes it really is for the best.
Staying together for the kids is a mistake learned the hard way they will be hurt no matter what they see and feel whats going on at home .I took it for 20 years before we divorced the kids tell me now I was stupied to stay for them that long. now I'm happy they are happy the ex is happy he got what he wanted. just talk to the kids together let them know its something between you two nothing to do with them we did that was up front there was no more love for each other.but we love them and always will. kids are smarter and stronger than we want to beleive. Good Luck in what ever you deside to do.
Seek professional assistance to better communicate with each other. Thus getting to the bottom of whatever issues that are between you both. If resolution is impossible....or if one truly no longer wishes to remain in the marriage, then by all means work thru an amicable divorce, if at all possible.
No one is able to live in an unhappy/disconnected relationship indefinitely. It will eventually crumble.
wow, someone feels the same as i do on here? whenever i take my kid out, i do it alone, although i am married. i eat alone, i talk to my sister ONLY, i sleep alone, i never go out, i have horrible nonexistent sex with my husband that i get no satisfaction from, i have one way communication with my husband (i talk, and he doesn't even listen). i am a single married parent...i do everything alone. i'm tired of it too, but my daughter loves her dad dearly that she hardly sees because he's a workaholic! we live in the same house. he's always too tired or working. i'm sick of it...i'd do better if i was all alone, what does he need me for? i understand and sympathize with you.
yes leave him but dont deny him any part the kids lives his mind set toward family life will reflect in his activeness in your families life.i would also suggest you start screwing eveyone you can befor you become undesireable in other mans eyes
I've seen a lot of relationships like this. The best thing I can recommend is marriage counseling. Some men think they are beyond that, so if he refuses, try talking to him about other alternatives. Since I don't know the intimate details, I'm not sure what to tell you otherwise. The solution depends on your situation, and what response, if any, you get out of your husband. If you'd like to email me for a better response, please feel free.
Good Luck!
My advice: DO NOT STAY TOGETHER FOR THE SAKE OF THE KIDS!! It doesn't serve anyone. Also, the younger the children are when the divorce occurs the easier it is on them. I was married for 11 years also, and had two sons who were 10 and 7 at the time. I had contemplated divorce for almost 5 years and wish now that I would have done it sooner. I am very happy and so are my boys. Good luck to all of you.
my parents are going through a divorce. i guess the only thing is to go to marriage councilling because no matter what your kids will get hurt through this. i don't like my father now because of this so my advice is to try all much as possible to work things out.
natilie
doesnt matter what you do, let your kids know it wasnt there fault, treat them no differently and if you do divorce never say anything bad about your other in front of the kids. and as much as you try and hide things from kids there smart enough to figure things out.last lipstick
Do everything it takes to make your marriage work first. Just talking isn't going to help, though a lot of people think that is the cure all for everything. Show her that you want to make this work. What part did you play, for the marriage to get where it is today? It takes two.What do I do being a married single parent that does not want to harm his children with a divorce?
Married/Single/Father???
Ya know, that just ain't right!
FIX IT ONE WAY OR THE OTHER!
Ok, the older your children are, the more painful it will be for them. For their good, do it while they have time for their memories to fade. And remember to clarify that you both still love *them*, and it's not their fault. Your love for your children will not change. Good luck. :)
I know my answer is not very detailed and it's short, but I was the child of divorced parents, and the older you are the more painful it is. Trust me.
My parents got divorced when i was young and although it hurt at the time, i soon realised that it was for the best, not only were my parents much happier but it also had a positive effect on my sister and I, no longer did we have to deal with the arguments or put up with the tension.
It really was the best thing all round!!!!!!!!
Divorce should be the last option, but in some cases cannot be avoided and sometimes it really is for the best.
Staying together for the kids is a mistake learned the hard way they will be hurt no matter what they see and feel whats going on at home .I took it for 20 years before we divorced the kids tell me now I was stupied to stay for them that long. now I'm happy they are happy the ex is happy he got what he wanted. just talk to the kids together let them know its something between you two nothing to do with them we did that was up front there was no more love for each other.but we love them and always will. kids are smarter and stronger than we want to beleive. Good Luck in what ever you deside to do.
Seek professional assistance to better communicate with each other. Thus getting to the bottom of whatever issues that are between you both. If resolution is impossible....or if one truly no longer wishes to remain in the marriage, then by all means work thru an amicable divorce, if at all possible.
No one is able to live in an unhappy/disconnected relationship indefinitely. It will eventually crumble.
wow, someone feels the same as i do on here? whenever i take my kid out, i do it alone, although i am married. i eat alone, i talk to my sister ONLY, i sleep alone, i never go out, i have horrible nonexistent sex with my husband that i get no satisfaction from, i have one way communication with my husband (i talk, and he doesn't even listen). i am a single married parent...i do everything alone. i'm tired of it too, but my daughter loves her dad dearly that she hardly sees because he's a workaholic! we live in the same house. he's always too tired or working. i'm sick of it...i'd do better if i was all alone, what does he need me for? i understand and sympathize with you.
yes leave him but dont deny him any part the kids lives his mind set toward family life will reflect in his activeness in your families life.i would also suggest you start screwing eveyone you can befor you become undesireable in other mans eyes
I've seen a lot of relationships like this. The best thing I can recommend is marriage counseling. Some men think they are beyond that, so if he refuses, try talking to him about other alternatives. Since I don't know the intimate details, I'm not sure what to tell you otherwise. The solution depends on your situation, and what response, if any, you get out of your husband. If you'd like to email me for a better response, please feel free.
Good Luck!
My advice: DO NOT STAY TOGETHER FOR THE SAKE OF THE KIDS!! It doesn't serve anyone. Also, the younger the children are when the divorce occurs the easier it is on them. I was married for 11 years also, and had two sons who were 10 and 7 at the time. I had contemplated divorce for almost 5 years and wish now that I would have done it sooner. I am very happy and so are my boys. Good luck to all of you.
my parents are going through a divorce. i guess the only thing is to go to marriage councilling because no matter what your kids will get hurt through this. i don't like my father now because of this so my advice is to try all much as possible to work things out.
natilie
doesnt matter what you do, let your kids know it wasnt there fault, treat them no differently and if you do divorce never say anything bad about your other in front of the kids. and as much as you try and hide things from kids there smart enough to figure things out.
How is a subsidiary linked to it's parent company.?
In Tennessee when a new corp. is created there is no place to put the parent company.How is a subsidiary linked to it's parent company.?
Usually subsidiaries are partially or wholly owned by their parent companies. I would contact your Secretary of State's office to ask specific questions regarding the subsidiary/parent relationship.
Usually subsidiaries are partially or wholly owned by their parent companies. I would contact your Secretary of State's office to ask specific questions regarding the subsidiary/parent relationship.
Share experience setting up a cooperative for single parent respite care?
If you know anyone who has travelled the road already, setting up a cooperative/network to provide respite for single parents, please let me know. I don't want us waste any time experiencing the same mistakes that have been made by others before us.
We'd like to address the need in our neighborhood to form a
volunteer network/cooperative to provide respite for single parents. Maybe we could work in cooperation with the interfaith hospitality network?
It's not as easy as it used to be to provide care for children and
other vulnerable people. We have to cover our behinds with
background checks and always having at least 2 people, never one adult alone with a vulnerable person and never teaming up pairs where there would be any suspicion of ';hanky-panky';.
There is a perception that people who volunteer to work with vulnerable people must be motivated by predetory tendencies. Suspicion has hit people who vulunteer to lead scouts and those who work with youth in churches.Share experience setting up a cooperative for single parent respite care?
You have a lot of government red tape to go through. The business is highy regulated. Might need an attorney to advise you,Share experience setting up a cooperative for single parent respite care?
hi check this link its good
http://buyingandsellingshares.blogspot.com/
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We'd like to address the need in our neighborhood to form a
volunteer network/cooperative to provide respite for single parents. Maybe we could work in cooperation with the interfaith hospitality network?
It's not as easy as it used to be to provide care for children and
other vulnerable people. We have to cover our behinds with
background checks and always having at least 2 people, never one adult alone with a vulnerable person and never teaming up pairs where there would be any suspicion of ';hanky-panky';.
There is a perception that people who volunteer to work with vulnerable people must be motivated by predetory tendencies. Suspicion has hit people who vulunteer to lead scouts and those who work with youth in churches.Share experience setting up a cooperative for single parent respite care?
You have a lot of government red tape to go through. The business is highy regulated. Might need an attorney to advise you,Share experience setting up a cooperative for single parent respite care?
hi check this link its good
http://buyingandsellingshares.blogspot.com/
.
Is there anyone out there who's the parent of an emo kid?
I've always wondered who are the parents of emo kids? I mean don't there mom and dad disapprove of the way they dress and act?
I'm asking this question because it never seems like the Parents of the emo kid are never brought up. Where are the parents? So they don't care?Is there anyone out there who's the parent of an emo kid?
Im not a parent of an emo kid... but, my brother grew up being ';gothic';. My parents were not bad parents. They did care - but, they also believe in letting us have the freedom to express ourselves.Is there anyone out there who's the parent of an emo kid?
i have no idea what emo means
Dude.. your so freaking steryotipical.. god...
I have a fairly ';emo'; friend and he comes from a rich family that argues a lot. Each ';emo'; child is different. They all have different reasons for being one.
they are normal parents just like the parents of preps or surfers or indie kids
sheesh
hmm... i'm not sure. but i remember watching the Hayden Christiansen movie ';Life as a House,'; and he's totally emo. his parents are -somewhat- normal, so i guess it's just the environment in which they were raised, and personal choices and circumstances.
I'm asking this question because it never seems like the Parents of the emo kid are never brought up. Where are the parents? So they don't care?Is there anyone out there who's the parent of an emo kid?
Im not a parent of an emo kid... but, my brother grew up being ';gothic';. My parents were not bad parents. They did care - but, they also believe in letting us have the freedom to express ourselves.Is there anyone out there who's the parent of an emo kid?
i have no idea what emo means
Dude.. your so freaking steryotipical.. god...
I have a fairly ';emo'; friend and he comes from a rich family that argues a lot. Each ';emo'; child is different. They all have different reasons for being one.
they are normal parents just like the parents of preps or surfers or indie kids
sheesh
hmm... i'm not sure. but i remember watching the Hayden Christiansen movie ';Life as a House,'; and he's totally emo. his parents are -somewhat- normal, so i guess it's just the environment in which they were raised, and personal choices and circumstances.
Can you answer if you have kids: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
:Can you answer if you have kids: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
YES, but who cares!
You grab your bag o' tricks and git on down to the Parent Train and hop on.
It's a HeckaRide, and we're all in this 2gether.
Be brave, be bold, have FUN!
It IS fun!Can you answer if you have kids: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
Yes, I would say it is a normal feeling. There is a lot of worry that comes into play when becoming a parent for the first time. You question your ability to be able to support, love, and nurture another human being. The realization that there will be someone that counts on you for for every little thing is a scary thought.
However, those fears quickly pass once you realize that you are capable of being a good parent. I am a mother of 3 and only had those feelings during my first pregnancy.
yeah sure was . i shot dope for 30 + yrs and let the women always do it now im the parent and i am still worried i may be going about it wrong but i do what i do and try to be the best i can and do what my parents never done . so hopefully im doing the best i can with what i have and knowledge i have and read , practice makes perfect .
Yes it is. I put it off for a long time, but have never regretted becoming a parent. It is the most rewarding experience of your life--but also life's biggest challenge.
I don't have kids but, I know that it's very normal to be terrified of becoming a parent. And to even go into labor for that matter!
:)
hells yeah. there are a million scary things about being a parent.
:Can you answer if you have kids: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
YES, but who cares!
You grab your bag o' tricks and git on down to the Parent Train and hop on.
It's a HeckaRide, and we're all in this 2gether.
Be brave, be bold, have FUN!
It IS fun!Can you answer if you have kids: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
Yes, I would say it is a normal feeling. There is a lot of worry that comes into play when becoming a parent for the first time. You question your ability to be able to support, love, and nurture another human being. The realization that there will be someone that counts on you for for every little thing is a scary thought.
However, those fears quickly pass once you realize that you are capable of being a good parent. I am a mother of 3 and only had those feelings during my first pregnancy.
yeah sure was . i shot dope for 30 + yrs and let the women always do it now im the parent and i am still worried i may be going about it wrong but i do what i do and try to be the best i can and do what my parents never done . so hopefully im doing the best i can with what i have and knowledge i have and read , practice makes perfect .
Yes it is. I put it off for a long time, but have never regretted becoming a parent. It is the most rewarding experience of your life--but also life's biggest challenge.
I don't have kids but, I know that it's very normal to be terrified of becoming a parent. And to even go into labor for that matter!
:)
hells yeah. there are a million scary things about being a parent.
What am I supposed to do about my parent's finances?
My parents have stressed the fact that we have to cut back lately, saying 'everybody has to do it'. I didn't care until I was checking the voicemails this morning, and there were several debt collection calls. They're talking about taking money from retirement, but with college and private school payments, I don't think they'll be able to swing it. My mom works 2 nursing jobs, and my dad is a buisness man. How should I handle it?What am I supposed to do about my parent's finances?
wow I see your getting lots of spam back instead of an answer.
I would tell you to try to get a job and pitch in but if your in college that may not be feasible. That's honestly the only thing I can really think of. Times are very hard I have two kids and I work full time but I can barely feed my kids an i have to skip meals and eat once a day just to get through the week. But remember you education is very important and doing the best you can Is Very important so Please don't lose sight of that.
Good luck
wow I see your getting lots of spam back instead of an answer.
I would tell you to try to get a job and pitch in but if your in college that may not be feasible. That's honestly the only thing I can really think of. Times are very hard I have two kids and I work full time but I can barely feed my kids an i have to skip meals and eat once a day just to get through the week. But remember you education is very important and doing the best you can Is Very important so Please don't lose sight of that.
Good luck
What sort parent (foolish or wise) says this?
I know it's not fair, but it's the law.
If a parent says they know law is not fair,
then continue to abuse children with law,
which is both natural and spiritual abuse;
Isn't such considered to be child(little one) abuse by God,
and doesn't it have an end worse than millstone drowning?What sort parent (foolish or wise) says this?
Honestly, be more specific okay?What sort parent (foolish or wise) says this?
If it's a law, children need to learn to respect the law and authority figures. So for a parent to say I know it's not fair is the only unwise thing. If you are talking biblical laws, then same goes. It's not a law, it's a commandment. Not obeying commandments just shows that you don't love the lord example:if ye love me, keep my commandments. Then children should learn it's between them and God.
not sure if this was what your question askes exactly, but hope it helped.
first of all its foolish to think that all laws are fair for everyone involved but if its a law its still a law and ';must'; be obeyed . exactlywhat are you talking about when yuo speak of abusing the children with the law?.........im puzzled.
well, they should follow that statement with rationales for why there would be an unfair law and why it should be followed.
um its not literal its a figure of speech...i think you are stretching it by saying its abuse by God
fdxgzlast lipstick
If a parent says they know law is not fair,
then continue to abuse children with law,
which is both natural and spiritual abuse;
Isn't such considered to be child(little one) abuse by God,
and doesn't it have an end worse than millstone drowning?What sort parent (foolish or wise) says this?
Honestly, be more specific okay?What sort parent (foolish or wise) says this?
If it's a law, children need to learn to respect the law and authority figures. So for a parent to say I know it's not fair is the only unwise thing. If you are talking biblical laws, then same goes. It's not a law, it's a commandment. Not obeying commandments just shows that you don't love the lord example:if ye love me, keep my commandments. Then children should learn it's between them and God.
not sure if this was what your question askes exactly, but hope it helped.
first of all its foolish to think that all laws are fair for everyone involved but if its a law its still a law and ';must'; be obeyed . exactlywhat are you talking about when yuo speak of abusing the children with the law?.........im puzzled.
well, they should follow that statement with rationales for why there would be an unfair law and why it should be followed.
um its not literal its a figure of speech...i think you are stretching it by saying its abuse by God
fdxgz
Is the statute 16-5-45 been admended in the state of GA to include the cusotdal parent not allowing visits?
My son is ot allowed on our allotited vistation schedual. We have documented it through the police. Last weekend an officer told me about statute 16-5-45 and procceded to inform me that an admended verson is in effect. Allowing criminal charges for the custodial parent for not allowing proper viitation. Where can I find this information? I just need a little guidence!!Is the statute 16-5-45 been admended in the state of GA to include the cusotdal parent not allowing visits?
Georgia Code - Crimes and Offenses - Title 16, Section 16-5-45
(a) As used in this Code section, the term:
(1) 'Child' means any individual who is under the age of 17 years or any individual who is under the age of 18 years who is alleged to be a deprived child as such is defined in Code Section 15-11-2, relating to juvenile proceedings.
(2) 'Committed person' means any child or other person whose custody is entrusted to another individual by authority of law.
(3) 'Lawful custody' means that custody inherent in the natural parents, that custody awarded by proper authority as provided in Code Section 15-11-45, or that custody awarded to a parent, guardian, or other person by a court of competent jurisdiction.
(b)(1) A person commits the offense of interference with custody when without lawful authority to do so the person:
(A) Knowingly or recklessly takes or entices any child or committed person away from the individual who has lawful custody of such child or committed person;
(B) Knowingly harbors any child or committed person who has absconded; or
(C) Intentionally and willfully retains possession within this state of the child or committed person upon the expiration of a lawful period of visitation with the child or committed person.
(2) A person convicted of the offense of interference with custody shall be punished as follows:
(A) Upon conviction of the first offense, the defendant shall be guilty of a misdemeanor and shall be fined not less than $200.00 nor more than $500.00 or shall be imprisoned for not less than one month nor more than five months, or both fined and imprisoned;
(B) Upon conviction of the second offense, the defendant shall be guilty of a misdemeanor and shall be fined not less than $400.00 nor more than $1,000.00 or shall be imprisoned for not less than three months nor more than 12 months, or both fined and imprisoned; and
(C) Upon the conviction of the third or subsequent offense, the defendant shall be guilty of a felony and shall be punished by imprisonment for not less than one nor more than five years.
(c)(1) A person commits the offense of interstate interference with custody when without lawful authority to do so the person knowingly or recklessly takes or entices any minor or committed person away from the individual who has lawful custody of such minor or committed person and in so doing brings such minor or committed person into this state or removes such minor or committed person from this state.
(2) A person also commits the offense of interstate interference with custody when the person removes a minor or committed person from this state in the lawful exercise of a visitation right and, upon the expiration of the period of lawful visitation, intentionally retains possession of the minor or committed person in another state for the purpose of keeping the minor or committed person away from the individual having lawful custody of the minor or committed person. The offense is deemed to be committed in the county to which the minor or committed person was to have been returned upon expiration of the period of lawful visitation.
(3) A person convicted of the offense of interstate interference with custody shall be guilty of a felony and shall be imprisoned for not less than one year nor more than five years.
Georgia Code - Crimes and Offenses - Title 16, Section 16-5-45
(a) As used in this Code section, the term:
(1) 'Child' means any individual who is under the age of 17 years or any individual who is under the age of 18 years who is alleged to be a deprived child as such is defined in Code Section 15-11-2, relating to juvenile proceedings.
(2) 'Committed person' means any child or other person whose custody is entrusted to another individual by authority of law.
(3) 'Lawful custody' means that custody inherent in the natural parents, that custody awarded by proper authority as provided in Code Section 15-11-45, or that custody awarded to a parent, guardian, or other person by a court of competent jurisdiction.
(b)(1) A person commits the offense of interference with custody when without lawful authority to do so the person:
(A) Knowingly or recklessly takes or entices any child or committed person away from the individual who has lawful custody of such child or committed person;
(B) Knowingly harbors any child or committed person who has absconded; or
(C) Intentionally and willfully retains possession within this state of the child or committed person upon the expiration of a lawful period of visitation with the child or committed person.
(2) A person convicted of the offense of interference with custody shall be punished as follows:
(A) Upon conviction of the first offense, the defendant shall be guilty of a misdemeanor and shall be fined not less than $200.00 nor more than $500.00 or shall be imprisoned for not less than one month nor more than five months, or both fined and imprisoned;
(B) Upon conviction of the second offense, the defendant shall be guilty of a misdemeanor and shall be fined not less than $400.00 nor more than $1,000.00 or shall be imprisoned for not less than three months nor more than 12 months, or both fined and imprisoned; and
(C) Upon the conviction of the third or subsequent offense, the defendant shall be guilty of a felony and shall be punished by imprisonment for not less than one nor more than five years.
(c)(1) A person commits the offense of interstate interference with custody when without lawful authority to do so the person knowingly or recklessly takes or entices any minor or committed person away from the individual who has lawful custody of such minor or committed person and in so doing brings such minor or committed person into this state or removes such minor or committed person from this state.
(2) A person also commits the offense of interstate interference with custody when the person removes a minor or committed person from this state in the lawful exercise of a visitation right and, upon the expiration of the period of lawful visitation, intentionally retains possession of the minor or committed person in another state for the purpose of keeping the minor or committed person away from the individual having lawful custody of the minor or committed person. The offense is deemed to be committed in the county to which the minor or committed person was to have been returned upon expiration of the period of lawful visitation.
(3) A person convicted of the offense of interstate interference with custody shall be guilty of a felony and shall be imprisoned for not less than one year nor more than five years.
How do you deal with a Bi-polar parent?
Hopefully your parent has been prescribed medication and they are compliant in taking their meds. Many clients cope well with life.
But if they refuse to take theirs meds it is miserable.
Also, if they are self-medicating through drugs and/or alcohol it is even more miserable.
So if they are complaint in their meds, help them keep up on the doctors' appointments.
If they aren't complaint, please get counseling to help you deal with this. My guess is you are a minor living at home; some resources may be talk to your school counselor, contact NAMI, www.nami.org and even consider calling Child Protective Services if your health and well being are at risk.
Take good care of yourself. You are in a hell of hard situation.How do you deal with a Bi-polar parent?
Find a good Support Group for this.
It could give you some good pointers. Besides that, they will understand where you are in this battle with Bi-polar.How do you deal with a Bi-polar parent?
It's not easy. They should be on medication.
my advice is just when she/he is in there mood swing just take it calmly, r they severe bi-polar? Some severe bi-polar patients will have weird thoughts and delusions if not on proper meds. Good luck to u and your parent i know its not easy and it emotional for the children to go through.
you should always be there for them and make sure that they know that they can always come to you to talk about their feelings. As for medication, its fine if your ok with the risk. My aunt is bipolar, but her medication sometimes makes her either hyper-active or suicidal.
well MY MOM AND AD were Bipioler
Later found out I was to!!!!! never got along with parents but now I know why!
They passed away But I least I still got along with them after I grew up and realized.
set one to ';+'; and one to ';-';
and watch the sparks fly!
You cleave them in half, and keep the better part.
Become tri-polar.
But if they refuse to take theirs meds it is miserable.
Also, if they are self-medicating through drugs and/or alcohol it is even more miserable.
So if they are complaint in their meds, help them keep up on the doctors' appointments.
If they aren't complaint, please get counseling to help you deal with this. My guess is you are a minor living at home; some resources may be talk to your school counselor, contact NAMI, www.nami.org and even consider calling Child Protective Services if your health and well being are at risk.
Take good care of yourself. You are in a hell of hard situation.How do you deal with a Bi-polar parent?
Find a good Support Group for this.
It could give you some good pointers. Besides that, they will understand where you are in this battle with Bi-polar.How do you deal with a Bi-polar parent?
It's not easy. They should be on medication.
my advice is just when she/he is in there mood swing just take it calmly, r they severe bi-polar? Some severe bi-polar patients will have weird thoughts and delusions if not on proper meds. Good luck to u and your parent i know its not easy and it emotional for the children to go through.
you should always be there for them and make sure that they know that they can always come to you to talk about their feelings. As for medication, its fine if your ok with the risk. My aunt is bipolar, but her medication sometimes makes her either hyper-active or suicidal.
well MY MOM AND AD were Bipioler
Later found out I was to!!!!! never got along with parents but now I know why!
They passed away But I least I still got along with them after I grew up and realized.
set one to ';+'; and one to ';-';
and watch the sparks fly!
You cleave them in half, and keep the better part.
Become tri-polar.
What do I do being a married single parent that does not want to harm his children with a divorce?
I have been married for 11 years and have 2 7 year olds. I feel like I have become a married single parent. Talking doesn't work and we almost filed divorce over a year ago at my request but I decided not to. Anyone have the same issues.What do I do being a married single parent that does not want to harm his children with a divorce?
Do everything it takes to make your marriage work first. Just talking isn't going to help, though a lot of people think that is the cure all for everything. Show her that you want to make this work. What part did you play, for the marriage to get where it is today? It takes two.What do I do being a married single parent that does not want to harm his children with a divorce?
Married/Single/Father???
Ya know, that just ain't right!
FIX IT ONE WAY OR THE OTHER!
Ok, the older your children are, the more painful it will be for them. For their good, do it while they have time for their memories to fade. And remember to clarify that you both still love *them*, and it's not their fault. Your love for your children will not change. Good luck. :)
I know my answer is not very detailed and it's short, but I was the child of divorced parents, and the older you are the more painful it is. Trust me.
My parents got divorced when i was young and although it hurt at the time, i soon realised that it was for the best, not only were my parents much happier but it also had a positive effect on my sister and I, no longer did we have to deal with the arguments or put up with the tension.
It really was the best thing all round!!!!!!!!
Divorce should be the last option, but in some cases cannot be avoided and sometimes it really is for the best.
Staying together for the kids is a mistake learned the hard way they will be hurt no matter what they see and feel whats going on at home .I took it for 20 years before we divorced the kids tell me now I was stupied to stay for them that long. now I'm happy they are happy the ex is happy he got what he wanted. just talk to the kids together let them know its something between you two nothing to do with them we did that was up front there was no more love for each other.but we love them and always will. kids are smarter and stronger than we want to beleive. Good Luck in what ever you deside to do.
Seek professional assistance to better communicate with each other. Thus getting to the bottom of whatever issues that are between you both. If resolution is impossible....or if one truly no longer wishes to remain in the marriage, then by all means work thru an amicable divorce, if at all possible.
No one is able to live in an unhappy/disconnected relationship indefinitely. It will eventually crumble.
wow, someone feels the same as i do on here? whenever i take my kid out, i do it alone, although i am married. i eat alone, i talk to my sister ONLY, i sleep alone, i never go out, i have horrible nonexistent sex with my husband that i get no satisfaction from, i have one way communication with my husband (i talk, and he doesn't even listen). i am a single married parent...i do everything alone. i'm tired of it too, but my daughter loves her dad dearly that she hardly sees because he's a workaholic! we live in the same house. he's always too tired or working. i'm sick of it...i'd do better if i was all alone, what does he need me for? i understand and sympathize with you.
yes leave him but dont deny him any part the kids lives his mind set toward family life will reflect in his activeness in your families life.i would also suggest you start screwing eveyone you can befor you become undesireable in other mans eyes
I've seen a lot of relationships like this. The best thing I can recommend is marriage counseling. Some men think they are beyond that, so if he refuses, try talking to him about other alternatives. Since I don't know the intimate details, I'm not sure what to tell you otherwise. The solution depends on your situation, and what response, if any, you get out of your husband. If you'd like to email me for a better response, please feel free.
Good Luck!
My advice: DO NOT STAY TOGETHER FOR THE SAKE OF THE KIDS!! It doesn't serve anyone. Also, the younger the children are when the divorce occurs the easier it is on them. I was married for 11 years also, and had two sons who were 10 and 7 at the time. I had contemplated divorce for almost 5 years and wish now that I would have done it sooner. I am very happy and so are my boys. Good luck to all of you.
my parents are going through a divorce. i guess the only thing is to go to marriage councilling because no matter what your kids will get hurt through this. i don't like my father now because of this so my advice is to try all much as possible to work things out.
natilie
doesnt matter what you do, let your kids know it wasnt there fault, treat them no differently and if you do divorce never say anything bad about your other in front of the kids. and as much as you try and hide things from kids there smart enough to figure things out.
Do everything it takes to make your marriage work first. Just talking isn't going to help, though a lot of people think that is the cure all for everything. Show her that you want to make this work. What part did you play, for the marriage to get where it is today? It takes two.What do I do being a married single parent that does not want to harm his children with a divorce?
Married/Single/Father???
Ya know, that just ain't right!
FIX IT ONE WAY OR THE OTHER!
Ok, the older your children are, the more painful it will be for them. For their good, do it while they have time for their memories to fade. And remember to clarify that you both still love *them*, and it's not their fault. Your love for your children will not change. Good luck. :)
I know my answer is not very detailed and it's short, but I was the child of divorced parents, and the older you are the more painful it is. Trust me.
My parents got divorced when i was young and although it hurt at the time, i soon realised that it was for the best, not only were my parents much happier but it also had a positive effect on my sister and I, no longer did we have to deal with the arguments or put up with the tension.
It really was the best thing all round!!!!!!!!
Divorce should be the last option, but in some cases cannot be avoided and sometimes it really is for the best.
Staying together for the kids is a mistake learned the hard way they will be hurt no matter what they see and feel whats going on at home .I took it for 20 years before we divorced the kids tell me now I was stupied to stay for them that long. now I'm happy they are happy the ex is happy he got what he wanted. just talk to the kids together let them know its something between you two nothing to do with them we did that was up front there was no more love for each other.but we love them and always will. kids are smarter and stronger than we want to beleive. Good Luck in what ever you deside to do.
Seek professional assistance to better communicate with each other. Thus getting to the bottom of whatever issues that are between you both. If resolution is impossible....or if one truly no longer wishes to remain in the marriage, then by all means work thru an amicable divorce, if at all possible.
No one is able to live in an unhappy/disconnected relationship indefinitely. It will eventually crumble.
wow, someone feels the same as i do on here? whenever i take my kid out, i do it alone, although i am married. i eat alone, i talk to my sister ONLY, i sleep alone, i never go out, i have horrible nonexistent sex with my husband that i get no satisfaction from, i have one way communication with my husband (i talk, and he doesn't even listen). i am a single married parent...i do everything alone. i'm tired of it too, but my daughter loves her dad dearly that she hardly sees because he's a workaholic! we live in the same house. he's always too tired or working. i'm sick of it...i'd do better if i was all alone, what does he need me for? i understand and sympathize with you.
yes leave him but dont deny him any part the kids lives his mind set toward family life will reflect in his activeness in your families life.i would also suggest you start screwing eveyone you can befor you become undesireable in other mans eyes
I've seen a lot of relationships like this. The best thing I can recommend is marriage counseling. Some men think they are beyond that, so if he refuses, try talking to him about other alternatives. Since I don't know the intimate details, I'm not sure what to tell you otherwise. The solution depends on your situation, and what response, if any, you get out of your husband. If you'd like to email me for a better response, please feel free.
Good Luck!
My advice: DO NOT STAY TOGETHER FOR THE SAKE OF THE KIDS!! It doesn't serve anyone. Also, the younger the children are when the divorce occurs the easier it is on them. I was married for 11 years also, and had two sons who were 10 and 7 at the time. I had contemplated divorce for almost 5 years and wish now that I would have done it sooner. I am very happy and so are my boys. Good luck to all of you.
my parents are going through a divorce. i guess the only thing is to go to marriage councilling because no matter what your kids will get hurt through this. i don't like my father now because of this so my advice is to try all much as possible to work things out.
natilie
doesnt matter what you do, let your kids know it wasnt there fault, treat them no differently and if you do divorce never say anything bad about your other in front of the kids. and as much as you try and hide things from kids there smart enough to figure things out.
How is a subsidiary linked to it's parent company.?
In Tennessee when a new corp. is created there is no place to put the parent company.How is a subsidiary linked to it's parent company.?
Usually subsidiaries are partially or wholly owned by their parent companies. I would contact your Secretary of State's office to ask specific questions regarding the subsidiary/parent relationship.
Usually subsidiaries are partially or wholly owned by their parent companies. I would contact your Secretary of State's office to ask specific questions regarding the subsidiary/parent relationship.
Share experience setting up a cooperative for single parent respite care?
If you know anyone who has travelled the road already, setting up a cooperative/network to provide respite for single parents, please let me know. I don't want us waste any time experiencing the same mistakes that have been made by others before us.
We'd like to address the need in our neighborhood to form a
volunteer network/cooperative to provide respite for single parents. Maybe we could work in cooperation with the interfaith hospitality network?
It's not as easy as it used to be to provide care for children and
other vulnerable people. We have to cover our behinds with
background checks and always having at least 2 people, never one adult alone with a vulnerable person and never teaming up pairs where there would be any suspicion of ';hanky-panky';.
There is a perception that people who volunteer to work with vulnerable people must be motivated by predetory tendencies. Suspicion has hit people who vulunteer to lead scouts and those who work with youth in churches.Share experience setting up a cooperative for single parent respite care?
You have a lot of government red tape to go through. The business is highy regulated. Might need an attorney to advise you,Share experience setting up a cooperative for single parent respite care?
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We'd like to address the need in our neighborhood to form a
volunteer network/cooperative to provide respite for single parents. Maybe we could work in cooperation with the interfaith hospitality network?
It's not as easy as it used to be to provide care for children and
other vulnerable people. We have to cover our behinds with
background checks and always having at least 2 people, never one adult alone with a vulnerable person and never teaming up pairs where there would be any suspicion of ';hanky-panky';.
There is a perception that people who volunteer to work with vulnerable people must be motivated by predetory tendencies. Suspicion has hit people who vulunteer to lead scouts and those who work with youth in churches.Share experience setting up a cooperative for single parent respite care?
You have a lot of government red tape to go through. The business is highy regulated. Might need an attorney to advise you,Share experience setting up a cooperative for single parent respite care?
hi check this link its good
http://buyingandsellingshares.blogspot.com/
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Is there anyone out there who's the parent of an emo kid?
I've always wondered who are the parents of emo kids? I mean don't there mom and dad disapprove of the way they dress and act?
I'm asking this question because it never seems like the Parents of the emo kid are never brought up. Where are the parents? So they don't care?Is there anyone out there who's the parent of an emo kid?
Im not a parent of an emo kid... but, my brother grew up being ';gothic';. My parents were not bad parents. They did care - but, they also believe in letting us have the freedom to express ourselves.Is there anyone out there who's the parent of an emo kid?
i have no idea what emo means
Dude.. your so freaking steryotipical.. god...
I have a fairly ';emo'; friend and he comes from a rich family that argues a lot. Each ';emo'; child is different. They all have different reasons for being one.
they are normal parents just like the parents of preps or surfers or indie kids
sheesh
hmm... i'm not sure. but i remember watching the Hayden Christiansen movie ';Life as a House,'; and he's totally emo. his parents are -somewhat- normal, so i guess it's just the environment in which they were raised, and personal choices and circumstances.last lipstick
I'm asking this question because it never seems like the Parents of the emo kid are never brought up. Where are the parents? So they don't care?Is there anyone out there who's the parent of an emo kid?
Im not a parent of an emo kid... but, my brother grew up being ';gothic';. My parents were not bad parents. They did care - but, they also believe in letting us have the freedom to express ourselves.Is there anyone out there who's the parent of an emo kid?
i have no idea what emo means
Dude.. your so freaking steryotipical.. god...
I have a fairly ';emo'; friend and he comes from a rich family that argues a lot. Each ';emo'; child is different. They all have different reasons for being one.
they are normal parents just like the parents of preps or surfers or indie kids
sheesh
hmm... i'm not sure. but i remember watching the Hayden Christiansen movie ';Life as a House,'; and he's totally emo. his parents are -somewhat- normal, so i guess it's just the environment in which they were raised, and personal choices and circumstances.
Can you answer if you have kids: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
:Can you answer if you have kids: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
YES, but who cares!
You grab your bag o' tricks and git on down to the Parent Train and hop on.
It's a HeckaRide, and we're all in this 2gether.
Be brave, be bold, have FUN!
It IS fun!Can you answer if you have kids: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
Yes, I would say it is a normal feeling. There is a lot of worry that comes into play when becoming a parent for the first time. You question your ability to be able to support, love, and nurture another human being. The realization that there will be someone that counts on you for for every little thing is a scary thought.
However, those fears quickly pass once you realize that you are capable of being a good parent. I am a mother of 3 and only had those feelings during my first pregnancy.
yeah sure was . i shot dope for 30 + yrs and let the women always do it now im the parent and i am still worried i may be going about it wrong but i do what i do and try to be the best i can and do what my parents never done . so hopefully im doing the best i can with what i have and knowledge i have and read , practice makes perfect .
Yes it is. I put it off for a long time, but have never regretted becoming a parent. It is the most rewarding experience of your life--but also life's biggest challenge.
I don't have kids but, I know that it's very normal to be terrified of becoming a parent. And to even go into labor for that matter!
:)
hells yeah. there are a million scary things about being a parent.
:Can you answer if you have kids: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
YES, but who cares!
You grab your bag o' tricks and git on down to the Parent Train and hop on.
It's a HeckaRide, and we're all in this 2gether.
Be brave, be bold, have FUN!
It IS fun!Can you answer if you have kids: Is it normal to be terrified of becoming a parent?
Yes, I would say it is a normal feeling. There is a lot of worry that comes into play when becoming a parent for the first time. You question your ability to be able to support, love, and nurture another human being. The realization that there will be someone that counts on you for for every little thing is a scary thought.
However, those fears quickly pass once you realize that you are capable of being a good parent. I am a mother of 3 and only had those feelings during my first pregnancy.
yeah sure was . i shot dope for 30 + yrs and let the women always do it now im the parent and i am still worried i may be going about it wrong but i do what i do and try to be the best i can and do what my parents never done . so hopefully im doing the best i can with what i have and knowledge i have and read , practice makes perfect .
Yes it is. I put it off for a long time, but have never regretted becoming a parent. It is the most rewarding experience of your life--but also life's biggest challenge.
I don't have kids but, I know that it's very normal to be terrified of becoming a parent. And to even go into labor for that matter!
:)
hells yeah. there are a million scary things about being a parent.
What am I supposed to do about my parent's finances?
My parents have stressed the fact that we have to cut back lately, saying 'everybody has to do it'. I didn't care until I was checking the voicemails this morning, and there were several debt collection calls. They're talking about taking money from retirement, but with college and private school payments, I don't think they'll be able to swing it. My mom works 2 nursing jobs, and my dad is a buisness man. How should I handle it?What am I supposed to do about my parent's finances?
wow I see your getting lots of spam back instead of an answer.
I would tell you to try to get a job and pitch in but if your in college that may not be feasible. That's honestly the only thing I can really think of. Times are very hard I have two kids and I work full time but I can barely feed my kids an i have to skip meals and eat once a day just to get through the week. But remember you education is very important and doing the best you can Is Very important so Please don't lose sight of that.
Good luck
wow I see your getting lots of spam back instead of an answer.
I would tell you to try to get a job and pitch in but if your in college that may not be feasible. That's honestly the only thing I can really think of. Times are very hard I have two kids and I work full time but I can barely feed my kids an i have to skip meals and eat once a day just to get through the week. But remember you education is very important and doing the best you can Is Very important so Please don't lose sight of that.
Good luck
Any rule of thumb ... How much $$ should a parent spend on their kids for Christmas. Sngle Mom-Medium Income?
I also tend to be a more practical person but my daughter has massive toys toys toys on her list. What do you do, how much do you buy. There are already too many times that I think my daughter takes so much for granate and does she appreciate it when I buy her things?Any rule of thumb ... How much $$ should a parent spend on their kids for Christmas. Sngle Mom-Medium Income?
We always set a Christmas budget. Usually its $100/child. We have three.
When my oldest was younger, i would spoil her rotten on Christmas - which she started to expect. One year, I didn't have very much money to spend on gifts so I picked a few items that I knew she really wanted. On Christmas morning I was devastated by her reaction. After that, we started the budget thing and we also make it a point to help those less fortunate than ourselves. My daughter has even used money her Grandparents have given her for herself to get other children gifts.
I agree with the five gifts most people are saying. We try to spend that $100 on one big gift they really really want then buy 3-4 smaller items.Any rule of thumb ... How much $$ should a parent spend on their kids for Christmas. Sngle Mom-Medium Income?
You brought up another really good point. Remembering those that are less fortunate. I think this year I will have my daughter pick out a gift of her choice, wrap it and give it to someone who is less fortunately.
We spend no more than $100 per child and we have 3..ages 13 years, 19 months and 10 days.
We never went by the dollar amount (while of course taking into account what we could afford), but rather focused on getting things which we knew our child would love. Quality over quantity.
Depending on her age...and the fact that she already has a bunch of stuff that she doesn't appreciate. I would set the bar low. There's nothing wrong with buying your child stuff for Christmas....but it's better to not instill greed in them. My friend spends $1000 on each of her children (she literally saves all year) her kids are under 7. I think that she's nuts...especially since as they get older their ';toys'; get bigger and more expensive.
At any rate....as a former single mother with a moderate income....I suggest buying ONE big gift...and a few smaller ones. I wouldn't go hog wild...maybe tell her specifically to cut her list down. There's nothing wrong with teaching moderation. When we sit down to write Santa...they get to ask for 3 things (and only 3 things) and Santa only brings one gift. My husband and I will buy the other two items they ask for and maybe one more thing.
Good luck. And I know that I will get thumbs down for this...but oh well. I never understood why people needed to out do the Jones' simply because they had children.
i try and stick to abt 5 gifts, and no more than like 150.00 per child. christmas is a special day, but i cannot afford to over spend then be late on bills, (which i started out doing )
plus, in my family, i know that they will get gifts from a few other family members, and that they will have plenty.
i generally buy a big present-like the one that cost the most or is the biggest-then about 5 smaller things -and fill the stocking-I dont choose big expensive toys for the 5 presents either-just fun stuff. You can always say that Santa brought her what he thought she needed-I usually put some wrapped candy in the stocking too so they dont take the toys for granted. Good Luck!
My kids are 9 years old and 21 months old. my daughter(9 yrs old) i spend roughly around $450 for her christmas presents. The big gift she wants this xmas is a electric scooter. She is a good girl and appreciates everything she gets so i try to get everything she lists on her christmas list which is this year 12 items. As for my son, i will only spend $150 as he could care less. Then we go over my sister and her family's house and we will exchange gifts over there, as well. Just spend within your means and much happiness to you on the holidays
I don't think there is any guideline on how much you should spend.
We try to buy our son three nice gifts, and that is all!
I'm married and have 3 kids and the min. about per kid is 5 gifts go to walmart, target, big lots. Toys are toys they either break it or lose it. Before I got married my son wanted all the best toys but I was single with a 9 to 5 job. So what did was get him the #1 item that he wanted then 4 the rest get what is almost the same and cheaper.
Mine is a ten year old boy, and I ask him to pick out one big item and three or four smaller things that he really wants. That way I can get him what he wants the most, plus a few surprises, and he is happy without being overly spoiled.
No more than five times your gross hourly salary.
We always set a Christmas budget. Usually its $100/child. We have three.
When my oldest was younger, i would spoil her rotten on Christmas - which she started to expect. One year, I didn't have very much money to spend on gifts so I picked a few items that I knew she really wanted. On Christmas morning I was devastated by her reaction. After that, we started the budget thing and we also make it a point to help those less fortunate than ourselves. My daughter has even used money her Grandparents have given her for herself to get other children gifts.
I agree with the five gifts most people are saying. We try to spend that $100 on one big gift they really really want then buy 3-4 smaller items.Any rule of thumb ... How much $$ should a parent spend on their kids for Christmas. Sngle Mom-Medium Income?
You brought up another really good point. Remembering those that are less fortunate. I think this year I will have my daughter pick out a gift of her choice, wrap it and give it to someone who is less fortunately.
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We spend no more than $100 per child and we have 3..ages 13 years, 19 months and 10 days.
We never went by the dollar amount (while of course taking into account what we could afford), but rather focused on getting things which we knew our child would love. Quality over quantity.
Depending on her age...and the fact that she already has a bunch of stuff that she doesn't appreciate. I would set the bar low. There's nothing wrong with buying your child stuff for Christmas....but it's better to not instill greed in them. My friend spends $1000 on each of her children (she literally saves all year) her kids are under 7. I think that she's nuts...especially since as they get older their ';toys'; get bigger and more expensive.
At any rate....as a former single mother with a moderate income....I suggest buying ONE big gift...and a few smaller ones. I wouldn't go hog wild...maybe tell her specifically to cut her list down. There's nothing wrong with teaching moderation. When we sit down to write Santa...they get to ask for 3 things (and only 3 things) and Santa only brings one gift. My husband and I will buy the other two items they ask for and maybe one more thing.
Good luck. And I know that I will get thumbs down for this...but oh well. I never understood why people needed to out do the Jones' simply because they had children.
i try and stick to abt 5 gifts, and no more than like 150.00 per child. christmas is a special day, but i cannot afford to over spend then be late on bills, (which i started out doing )
plus, in my family, i know that they will get gifts from a few other family members, and that they will have plenty.
i generally buy a big present-like the one that cost the most or is the biggest-then about 5 smaller things -and fill the stocking-I dont choose big expensive toys for the 5 presents either-just fun stuff. You can always say that Santa brought her what he thought she needed-I usually put some wrapped candy in the stocking too so they dont take the toys for granted. Good Luck!
My kids are 9 years old and 21 months old. my daughter(9 yrs old) i spend roughly around $450 for her christmas presents. The big gift she wants this xmas is a electric scooter. She is a good girl and appreciates everything she gets so i try to get everything she lists on her christmas list which is this year 12 items. As for my son, i will only spend $150 as he could care less. Then we go over my sister and her family's house and we will exchange gifts over there, as well. Just spend within your means and much happiness to you on the holidays
I don't think there is any guideline on how much you should spend.
We try to buy our son three nice gifts, and that is all!
I'm married and have 3 kids and the min. about per kid is 5 gifts go to walmart, target, big lots. Toys are toys they either break it or lose it. Before I got married my son wanted all the best toys but I was single with a 9 to 5 job. So what did was get him the #1 item that he wanted then 4 the rest get what is almost the same and cheaper.
Mine is a ten year old boy, and I ask him to pick out one big item and three or four smaller things that he really wants. That way I can get him what he wants the most, plus a few surprises, and he is happy without being overly spoiled.
No more than five times your gross hourly salary.
Can 15 year old girl go visit her grandmother in the Kennebunk Nursing Home without a parent?
I have no idea what nursing home that is - but I'm pretty sure you can. It's the same as going to a relative's house but you probably just have to sign in and out.
What impression does the abusive tongue of a parent leaves on the child's mind?
It plants seeds of anger in the child's heart.
The more the child is abused in that manner the more the parents water those seeds.
As an adult the child's heart will be choked with anger unless he/she learns how to cultivate love there in it's stead.
We have no control over the actions of others.
Hopefully, the parents have fulfilled their responsibility of teaching their children the basics of Islam (if not thru their own actions, at least then thru formal teaching). That way the child will have word of Allah swt and the hadith of the prophet saw to guide them past their parents' bad example.
What impression does the abusive tongue of a parent leaves on the child's mind?
That it's okay to be abusive. Or that it's okay to be abused. Neither are okay, and it follows a child for their entire life living with parents that are abusive to them, their siblings or even eachother. A protective and safe environment is what a child needs. And a smile always gave a far more lasting impression, that it's good to be kind.What impression does the abusive tongue of a parent leaves on the child's mind?
A very good Q sis,
There could be endless things that the parents can leave in a child's mind when they use abusive language.Children r innocent %26amp; this innocence will lead to hatred, anger %26amp; a very unsafe personality as he /she grows older. I would say to parents to watch wat they say if they want good off springs coz a man only gets wat he plants in return. We can't expect sweet grapes by planting bitter guard.
May Allah give us %26amp; our coming generations the behavior of our beloved prophet(s).
You are teaching them how to act towards others (so it's how they will treat their children and/or spouse). You are also teaching them that that's how they're meant to be treated....so they will allow themselves to be treated that way by a spouse or significant other. You are breaking their spirit and stealing their self esteem so they will lack motivation in their lives (both in school and career). You are teaching them that anger and hostility are how you deal with life and life's problems. You are teaching them to be either withdrawn (to avoid abuse) or outwardly hostile (acting as you act). The effects of your actions are wide and varied depending on the character traits of the child. You are NOT helping them to grow into happy and productive adults, that part is sure.
I think the child would start to use words like his parents use more often and earlier than most kids do. It would also make him feel that it is the right thing to do, since kids are not mature enough to know what's right and what's not. It will in some way encourage them to use the words, and won't make them feel too guilty.
I say it leaves a big impression on the child. It gives them the Perception that what their parents are doing is okay....teaching them unhealthy Communication skills. It could also have an effect on the way they interact with others, they could be timid and shy feeling they'll get the same reactions from piers and friends as they do from their parents. So yes...I think it leaves a bit of a scar.
well it will have a impact on there life but it is not only the parents who impact on the child the environment he or she lives i the culture and the school most children tend to learn from school more then home
well i know my parent don't swear much or not the bad swearing words but i swear a lot (i mean a lot) this is not bcz my parent to or any one else in the family.
The poor child never learns the proper way to communicate. You can't get everything done by cursing or screaming. If yelling is all they hear that's all they'll do or they will grow up not expressing themselves because they're afraid of being screamed and cursed at more so they'll never stand up for themselves.
well. it repeats its self. My mother said stuff to me that i didn't like and now i catch myself saying it to my daughter, I try to catch myself before i say it, cause i HATE when it was said to me! But i don't abuse my child.
makes the kids abusive towards other kids too
Now answer mine pls:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
i do what i want i say what i want to who i want and i don't care...that's the impression it left on me, oh and that im a piece of crap whore.
The child is going to learn abusive words either from the parent or outside the home. So regardless who the child learns the words from, its going to happen no matter what in life !i
Mental scars..self esteem issues..anger and hatred coz abuse makes u sometimes think that yr parents really hate u ,and they r the ppl who suppose to love u no matter wut .
They become Shia'a
The child will copy the parent and swear like mad. Lol.
My mother yelled at me ONCE,shes been missing since
I dont know anything about where she is tho
I would say it leaves a scar, not an impression. That about sums it up
The child will curse another child...
What you teach them is what they will teach others
And the cycle continues
children learn what they live.
Scars that never heal
Poor sense of self worth
Lasting pain
they don't love me
The more the child is abused in that manner the more the parents water those seeds.
As an adult the child's heart will be choked with anger unless he/she learns how to cultivate love there in it's stead.
We have no control over the actions of others.
Hopefully, the parents have fulfilled their responsibility of teaching their children the basics of Islam (if not thru their own actions, at least then thru formal teaching). That way the child will have word of Allah swt and the hadith of the prophet saw to guide them past their parents' bad example.
What impression does the abusive tongue of a parent leaves on the child's mind?
That it's okay to be abusive. Or that it's okay to be abused. Neither are okay, and it follows a child for their entire life living with parents that are abusive to them, their siblings or even eachother. A protective and safe environment is what a child needs. And a smile always gave a far more lasting impression, that it's good to be kind.What impression does the abusive tongue of a parent leaves on the child's mind?
A very good Q sis,
There could be endless things that the parents can leave in a child's mind when they use abusive language.Children r innocent %26amp; this innocence will lead to hatred, anger %26amp; a very unsafe personality as he /she grows older. I would say to parents to watch wat they say if they want good off springs coz a man only gets wat he plants in return. We can't expect sweet grapes by planting bitter guard.
May Allah give us %26amp; our coming generations the behavior of our beloved prophet(s).
You are teaching them how to act towards others (so it's how they will treat their children and/or spouse). You are also teaching them that that's how they're meant to be treated....so they will allow themselves to be treated that way by a spouse or significant other. You are breaking their spirit and stealing their self esteem so they will lack motivation in their lives (both in school and career). You are teaching them that anger and hostility are how you deal with life and life's problems. You are teaching them to be either withdrawn (to avoid abuse) or outwardly hostile (acting as you act). The effects of your actions are wide and varied depending on the character traits of the child. You are NOT helping them to grow into happy and productive adults, that part is sure.
I think the child would start to use words like his parents use more often and earlier than most kids do. It would also make him feel that it is the right thing to do, since kids are not mature enough to know what's right and what's not. It will in some way encourage them to use the words, and won't make them feel too guilty.
I say it leaves a big impression on the child. It gives them the Perception that what their parents are doing is okay....teaching them unhealthy Communication skills. It could also have an effect on the way they interact with others, they could be timid and shy feeling they'll get the same reactions from piers and friends as they do from their parents. So yes...I think it leaves a bit of a scar.
well it will have a impact on there life but it is not only the parents who impact on the child the environment he or she lives i the culture and the school most children tend to learn from school more then home
well i know my parent don't swear much or not the bad swearing words but i swear a lot (i mean a lot) this is not bcz my parent to or any one else in the family.
The poor child never learns the proper way to communicate. You can't get everything done by cursing or screaming. If yelling is all they hear that's all they'll do or they will grow up not expressing themselves because they're afraid of being screamed and cursed at more so they'll never stand up for themselves.
well. it repeats its self. My mother said stuff to me that i didn't like and now i catch myself saying it to my daughter, I try to catch myself before i say it, cause i HATE when it was said to me! But i don't abuse my child.
makes the kids abusive towards other kids too
Now answer mine pls:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
i do what i want i say what i want to who i want and i don't care...that's the impression it left on me, oh and that im a piece of crap whore.
The child is going to learn abusive words either from the parent or outside the home. So regardless who the child learns the words from, its going to happen no matter what in life !i
Mental scars..self esteem issues..anger and hatred coz abuse makes u sometimes think that yr parents really hate u ,and they r the ppl who suppose to love u no matter wut .
They become Shia'a
The child will copy the parent and swear like mad. Lol.
My mother yelled at me ONCE,shes been missing since
I dont know anything about where she is tho
I would say it leaves a scar, not an impression. That about sums it up
The child will curse another child...
What you teach them is what they will teach others
And the cycle continues
children learn what they live.
Scars that never heal
Poor sense of self worth
Lasting pain
they don't love me
What age can children move out of their parent's home?
I have a cousin that is 17, she lives in a bad situation. There are at least 8 ppl living in a three bdrm home, I can and will take her in, but what if her handicap mother protests. Does she have a right to leave that home and come to another that is big enough to shelter her properly? We live in texas.What age can children move out of their parent's home?
You really need to look into state law. But with the situation and 8 ppl in house I really don't think the mother will say anything because social services is liable to get involved. But you need to be on safe side to protect yourself and talk to a law officerWhat age can children move out of their parent's home?
who cares what the law says? this is your flesh and blood rotting away, if you can provide a better situation for this person then by all means do it
Whenever they are ready. Usually it's by the time they are in college.
I think 17 is old enough. I think it depends on state law though. She should go to Dept of Social Services and ask to become an emancipated minor. They will tell her what the laws are.
I feel 17 is old enough to live alone.
at least in Michigan the age is 17.
I believe it is 18.
I don't know about the rest of the U.S. but you are leaglly able to move out of your parents house at the age of 18. But most people wait until they are in college...a few years after they graduate from high school.
Legally 18
19
they can at the age of 16 if they have court permission. but if they dont its age 18.
depends on your states law. i mean 18 would be the legal age to move out although shes not that far behind.
The age under the law is 18, after 18, the parents aren't responsible for what their kids does anymore.
18 before that parents are still responsible for them.
i think it's any age they feel necessary, i believe it's called emancipation... definitely take her in and help her out
whenever they go to collegelast lipstick
You really need to look into state law. But with the situation and 8 ppl in house I really don't think the mother will say anything because social services is liable to get involved. But you need to be on safe side to protect yourself and talk to a law officerWhat age can children move out of their parent's home?
who cares what the law says? this is your flesh and blood rotting away, if you can provide a better situation for this person then by all means do it
Whenever they are ready. Usually it's by the time they are in college.
I think 17 is old enough. I think it depends on state law though. She should go to Dept of Social Services and ask to become an emancipated minor. They will tell her what the laws are.
I feel 17 is old enough to live alone.
at least in Michigan the age is 17.
I believe it is 18.
I don't know about the rest of the U.S. but you are leaglly able to move out of your parents house at the age of 18. But most people wait until they are in college...a few years after they graduate from high school.
Legally 18
19
they can at the age of 16 if they have court permission. but if they dont its age 18.
depends on your states law. i mean 18 would be the legal age to move out although shes not that far behind.
The age under the law is 18, after 18, the parents aren't responsible for what their kids does anymore.
18 before that parents are still responsible for them.
i think it's any age they feel necessary, i believe it's called emancipation... definitely take her in and help her out
whenever they go to college
Can someone who turned down money in a parent's will, go back years later and try to claim the inheritance?
A family member who suffered from severe schizophrenia,was to inherit a large sum of money from her mothers will. At the time she refused the money and signed documents to that effect. After years of treatment,she is doing much better and wonders if she can go back and reclaim the inheritance? by the way she was the only child and sole benificiary.Can someone who turned down money in a parent's will, go back years later and try to claim the inheritance?
If she was not competent when she signed the documents, and the person who drew up said documents is the beneficiary, then there is a chance the heir can recover. Have see a lawyer asap.Can someone who turned down money in a parent's will, go back years later and try to claim the inheritance?
The beneficiary needs to see an attorney immediately. If she wasn't competent at the time she signed her rights away, the court might hold that the receiver of the inheritance was holding the proceeds as a constructive trust for the proper heir.
Depends what the papers she signed said. She very well may have surrendered the money to someone else.
No,
not after the papers were signed.
If she was not competent when she signed the documents, and the person who drew up said documents is the beneficiary, then there is a chance the heir can recover. Have see a lawyer asap.Can someone who turned down money in a parent's will, go back years later and try to claim the inheritance?
The beneficiary needs to see an attorney immediately. If she wasn't competent at the time she signed her rights away, the court might hold that the receiver of the inheritance was holding the proceeds as a constructive trust for the proper heir.
Depends what the papers she signed said. She very well may have surrendered the money to someone else.
No,
not after the papers were signed.
How do i send a parent request on make a baby on myspace??r=1258685335?
I Click on add a parent but nothing happens, My poor baby is pissed!
Can someone under 18 get acupuncture with a parent signature?
im 13 and i get awful headaches , and my teacher said she used to also , but she said that acupuncture really helped, and i just wanted to know before i go bugging the crap out of my parents about it ;)Can someone under 18 get acupuncture with a parent signature?
yesCan someone under 18 get acupuncture with a parent signature?
have you tried tylenol?
yesCan someone under 18 get acupuncture with a parent signature?
have you tried tylenol?
Can facebook chat conversations be monitored by a parent?
Does Facebook chat have the same option of saving conversations to a file similar to that of MSN Messenger?Can facebook chat conversations be monitored by a parent?
I think you can get monitoring software that records everything that happens on a computer. Download.com should have something.Can facebook chat conversations be monitored by a parent?
Yes, if you install a keylogger. For example, I use Protemac Keybag.
gjh,kh,khghg,,hmkg,mh
I think you can get monitoring software that records everything that happens on a computer. Download.com should have something.Can facebook chat conversations be monitored by a parent?
Yes, if you install a keylogger. For example, I use Protemac Keybag.
gjh,kh,khghg,,hmkg,mh
How old do you have to be to get a bank account on your own, without parent permission stuff?
I was just wondering how old you have to be to get a bank account?
without parent permission and stuff like that.
okay, thank you :DHow old do you have to be to get a bank account on your own, without parent permission stuff?
18How old do you have to be to get a bank account on your own, without parent permission stuff?
18 yrs old.
It is a flat out 18.
without parent permission and stuff like that.
okay, thank you :DHow old do you have to be to get a bank account on your own, without parent permission stuff?
18How old do you have to be to get a bank account on your own, without parent permission stuff?
18 yrs old.
It is a flat out 18.
Which parent can claim our 5 yr old son on their taxes?
We are legally divorced and have 50/50 custody. I have our son from Monday after school through Friday when I drop him off at school. I provide medical insurance for him. My ex wants to claim him on his taxes this year but I feel I should. Which one of us can legally claim him? My ex says that if I claim him he wants half of whatever I get. Can he legally insist on that? Thanks in advance.Which parent can claim our 5 yr old son on their taxes?
You have more of a legal right to claim your son, than your ex, if the child lives with you all week, and sees his dad on the weekends, you have the right to claim him on your taxes. does not matter if he is paying child support, in the eyes of the gov. he owes that. Also, if your divorce degree states how you claim your child, you must abide by that. He cannot make you give him half of your refund. No he cannot legally make you give him your money.Which parent can claim our 5 yr old son on their taxes?
I have heard that you each claim him for 6 months of the year.
Sorry I don't know for sure....Try contacting your attorney or a tax consultant.
Rotate yearly - major point to have been put in your divorce papers. Most common problems with taxes after the fact
You having him 5 days a week is not 50/50 custody. Whichever parent provides more than half the support of the child i.e. main residence, clothing, medical insurance, food, etc. is the parent that can claim. Even with split custody, in your divorce agreement it should have given one of you managing conservatorship rights to make major decisions.....I say claim him, if your ex does....you are both going to have to prove expenses to the IRS, but once you are divorced, he has no rights to any refund you receive.
Whoever has legal custody as stated on the divorce decree claims him.
A CPA can give you the answers you need. I should think that both of you can claim--50% of the deduction.
Call H%26amp;R Block, they can help answer your question. But when split up, that is really up to the two of you, and no, unless one of you pays child support, neither one of you can really insist on half payment. But if one of you is paying child support, then whoever is NOT paying is the one that is supposed to claim the child.last lipstick
You have more of a legal right to claim your son, than your ex, if the child lives with you all week, and sees his dad on the weekends, you have the right to claim him on your taxes. does not matter if he is paying child support, in the eyes of the gov. he owes that. Also, if your divorce degree states how you claim your child, you must abide by that. He cannot make you give him half of your refund. No he cannot legally make you give him your money.Which parent can claim our 5 yr old son on their taxes?
I have heard that you each claim him for 6 months of the year.
Sorry I don't know for sure....Try contacting your attorney or a tax consultant.
Rotate yearly - major point to have been put in your divorce papers. Most common problems with taxes after the fact
You having him 5 days a week is not 50/50 custody. Whichever parent provides more than half the support of the child i.e. main residence, clothing, medical insurance, food, etc. is the parent that can claim. Even with split custody, in your divorce agreement it should have given one of you managing conservatorship rights to make major decisions.....I say claim him, if your ex does....you are both going to have to prove expenses to the IRS, but once you are divorced, he has no rights to any refund you receive.
Whoever has legal custody as stated on the divorce decree claims him.
A CPA can give you the answers you need. I should think that both of you can claim--50% of the deduction.
Call H%26amp;R Block, they can help answer your question. But when split up, that is really up to the two of you, and no, unless one of you pays child support, neither one of you can really insist on half payment. But if one of you is paying child support, then whoever is NOT paying is the one that is supposed to claim the child.
Im 16 and i want my lip pierced..do piercing shops require you to have a parent or guardian with you?
also im sur emy parents wouldnt mind i just wondering?
and do most jobs accept them?Im 16 and i want my lip pierced..do piercing shops require you to have a parent or guardian with you?
ok. i started getting pierced at 17 because in NY the law is:
-16 and under require parental consent
-at 17 you just need valid ID and no genital piercings(under age) BUT many places chose not to do so
-18 do whatever you want
And the only facial piercing I have is my septum which I keep flipped up for jobs but I have 10 visible ear piercings and I've had problems finding jobs in the past. Also, any place that pierces 16 or under without parental consent is willing to break the law and if they're willing to break the law about something like that, you never know what else they're willing to break the law on. Be careful. A tattoo/piercing place in Buffalo NY was just all over the news for using dirty needles and anyone that got work done there had to be tested for HIV and Hepatitus and several people were positive. Is it really worth it? Just something to think about.Im 16 and i want my lip pierced..do piercing shops require you to have a parent or guardian with you?
some shops are diffrent. i know in my area you only have to be sixteen to do whatever you want with out a parent or guardian. but i know other places that require you to have your parent/guardian there. so if the thing is that you don't want your parents to know right away, talk to the shop first and find out what their policy is. then if parents are necessary, either tell your parents or live w.o your lip pierced haha and about the job thing, if your working in a coffee shop im sure its fine, but if you plan on going into a professional office they usually dont care for that lol
Just think about this before you do it:
If you ever decide you don't want the lip piercing anymore and remove it....after it heals you will have a dark spot where it was.
Most jobs in gas stations and convenience stores won't mind you having one, but beyond that I don't think many employers would hire you with mouth jewelry.
I do believe under 18 you need parental permission, but you could check at the piercing place....just phone them.
I'm not telling you not to do it....I'm just suggesting some things you might not have considered to help you make your decision. Good luck :))
As far as I know you have to be at least 18. Another thought for you and your parents is, who covers the medical expenses if your piercing was to get infected?
First appearance say volumes when applying for a job. You probably shouldn't wear your ring to a job interview.
My daughter had piercings done but when she pursued a job in law enforcement she had to let the holes close up.
if you look 18 then they will do it without a parent i think but most peircing shops require 16 year olds to be with there mam or dad. you could just lie and say your 18 and they would do it. i went without my parents so the store rang mymam to ask my age so they might do that.
yes yur not an adult to 18 so you will need them to go with you. but i love alip ring i'm sure it's gonna look super cute! are you gonna get in the middle just asking thats where i think it looks best! good luck!
Yes you have to have one or the other with you. I live in PA and you do, but other states do the same thing i don't know, but you should just to be safe.
don't do it, they look ridiculous, and lowers your position in society
and do most jobs accept them?Im 16 and i want my lip pierced..do piercing shops require you to have a parent or guardian with you?
ok. i started getting pierced at 17 because in NY the law is:
-16 and under require parental consent
-at 17 you just need valid ID and no genital piercings(under age) BUT many places chose not to do so
-18 do whatever you want
And the only facial piercing I have is my septum which I keep flipped up for jobs but I have 10 visible ear piercings and I've had problems finding jobs in the past. Also, any place that pierces 16 or under without parental consent is willing to break the law and if they're willing to break the law about something like that, you never know what else they're willing to break the law on. Be careful. A tattoo/piercing place in Buffalo NY was just all over the news for using dirty needles and anyone that got work done there had to be tested for HIV and Hepatitus and several people were positive. Is it really worth it? Just something to think about.Im 16 and i want my lip pierced..do piercing shops require you to have a parent or guardian with you?
some shops are diffrent. i know in my area you only have to be sixteen to do whatever you want with out a parent or guardian. but i know other places that require you to have your parent/guardian there. so if the thing is that you don't want your parents to know right away, talk to the shop first and find out what their policy is. then if parents are necessary, either tell your parents or live w.o your lip pierced haha and about the job thing, if your working in a coffee shop im sure its fine, but if you plan on going into a professional office they usually dont care for that lol
Just think about this before you do it:
If you ever decide you don't want the lip piercing anymore and remove it....after it heals you will have a dark spot where it was.
Most jobs in gas stations and convenience stores won't mind you having one, but beyond that I don't think many employers would hire you with mouth jewelry.
I do believe under 18 you need parental permission, but you could check at the piercing place....just phone them.
I'm not telling you not to do it....I'm just suggesting some things you might not have considered to help you make your decision. Good luck :))
As far as I know you have to be at least 18. Another thought for you and your parents is, who covers the medical expenses if your piercing was to get infected?
First appearance say volumes when applying for a job. You probably shouldn't wear your ring to a job interview.
My daughter had piercings done but when she pursued a job in law enforcement she had to let the holes close up.
if you look 18 then they will do it without a parent i think but most peircing shops require 16 year olds to be with there mam or dad. you could just lie and say your 18 and they would do it. i went without my parents so the store rang mymam to ask my age so they might do that.
yes yur not an adult to 18 so you will need them to go with you. but i love alip ring i'm sure it's gonna look super cute! are you gonna get in the middle just asking thats where i think it looks best! good luck!
Yes you have to have one or the other with you. I live in PA and you do, but other states do the same thing i don't know, but you should just to be safe.
don't do it, they look ridiculous, and lowers your position in society
Can someone under 18 get acupuncture with a parent signature?
im 13 and i get awful headaches , and my teacher said she used to also , but she said that acupuncture really helped, and i just wanted to know before i go bugging the crap out of my parents about it ;)Can someone under 18 get acupuncture with a parent signature?
yesCan someone under 18 get acupuncture with a parent signature?
have you tried tylenol?
yesCan someone under 18 get acupuncture with a parent signature?
have you tried tylenol?
Can facebook chat conversations be monitored by a parent?
Does Facebook chat have the same option of saving conversations to a file similar to that of MSN Messenger?Can facebook chat conversations be monitored by a parent?
Yes, if you install a keylogger. For example, I use Protemac Keybag.Can facebook chat conversations be monitored by a parent?
gjh,kh,khghg,,hmkg,mh
I think you can get monitoring software that records everything that happens on a computer. Download.com should have something.
Yes, if you install a keylogger. For example, I use Protemac Keybag.Can facebook chat conversations be monitored by a parent?
gjh,kh,khghg,,hmkg,mh
I think you can get monitoring software that records everything that happens on a computer. Download.com should have something.
How old do you have to be to get a bank account on your own, without parent permission stuff?
I was just wondering how old you have to be to get a bank account?
without parent permission and stuff like that.
okay, thank you :DHow old do you have to be to get a bank account on your own, without parent permission stuff?
18How old do you have to be to get a bank account on your own, without parent permission stuff?
18 yrs old.
It is a flat out 18.
without parent permission and stuff like that.
okay, thank you :DHow old do you have to be to get a bank account on your own, without parent permission stuff?
18How old do you have to be to get a bank account on your own, without parent permission stuff?
18 yrs old.
It is a flat out 18.
Which parent can claim our 5 yr old son on their taxes?
We are legally divorced and have 50/50 custody. I have our son from Monday after school through Friday when I drop him off at school. I provide medical insurance for him. My ex wants to claim him on his taxes this year but I feel I should. Which one of us can legally claim him? My ex says that if I claim him he wants half of whatever I get. Can he legally insist on that? Thanks in advance.Which parent can claim our 5 yr old son on their taxes?
You have more of a legal right to claim your son, than your ex, if the child lives with you all week, and sees his dad on the weekends, you have the right to claim him on your taxes. does not matter if he is paying child support, in the eyes of the gov. he owes that. Also, if your divorce degree states how you claim your child, you must abide by that. He cannot make you give him half of your refund. No he cannot legally make you give him your money.Which parent can claim our 5 yr old son on their taxes?
I have heard that you each claim him for 6 months of the year.
Sorry I don't know for sure....Try contacting your attorney or a tax consultant.
Rotate yearly - major point to have been put in your divorce papers. Most common problems with taxes after the fact
You having him 5 days a week is not 50/50 custody. Whichever parent provides more than half the support of the child i.e. main residence, clothing, medical insurance, food, etc. is the parent that can claim. Even with split custody, in your divorce agreement it should have given one of you managing conservatorship rights to make major decisions.....I say claim him, if your ex does....you are both going to have to prove expenses to the IRS, but once you are divorced, he has no rights to any refund you receive.
Whoever has legal custody as stated on the divorce decree claims him.
A CPA can give you the answers you need. I should think that both of you can claim--50% of the deduction.
Call H%26amp;R Block, they can help answer your question. But when split up, that is really up to the two of you, and no, unless one of you pays child support, neither one of you can really insist on half payment. But if one of you is paying child support, then whoever is NOT paying is the one that is supposed to claim the child.
You have more of a legal right to claim your son, than your ex, if the child lives with you all week, and sees his dad on the weekends, you have the right to claim him on your taxes. does not matter if he is paying child support, in the eyes of the gov. he owes that. Also, if your divorce degree states how you claim your child, you must abide by that. He cannot make you give him half of your refund. No he cannot legally make you give him your money.Which parent can claim our 5 yr old son on their taxes?
I have heard that you each claim him for 6 months of the year.
Sorry I don't know for sure....Try contacting your attorney or a tax consultant.
Rotate yearly - major point to have been put in your divorce papers. Most common problems with taxes after the fact
You having him 5 days a week is not 50/50 custody. Whichever parent provides more than half the support of the child i.e. main residence, clothing, medical insurance, food, etc. is the parent that can claim. Even with split custody, in your divorce agreement it should have given one of you managing conservatorship rights to make major decisions.....I say claim him, if your ex does....you are both going to have to prove expenses to the IRS, but once you are divorced, he has no rights to any refund you receive.
Whoever has legal custody as stated on the divorce decree claims him.
A CPA can give you the answers you need. I should think that both of you can claim--50% of the deduction.
Call H%26amp;R Block, they can help answer your question. But when split up, that is really up to the two of you, and no, unless one of you pays child support, neither one of you can really insist on half payment. But if one of you is paying child support, then whoever is NOT paying is the one that is supposed to claim the child.
Im 16 and i want my lip pierced..do piercing shops require you to have a parent or guardian with you?
also im sur emy parents wouldnt mind i just wondering?
and do most jobs accept them?Im 16 and i want my lip pierced..do piercing shops require you to have a parent or guardian with you?
ok. i started getting pierced at 17 because in NY the law is:
-16 and under require parental consent
-at 17 you just need valid ID and no genital piercings(under age) BUT many places chose not to do so
-18 do whatever you want
And the only facial piercing I have is my septum which I keep flipped up for jobs but I have 10 visible ear piercings and I've had problems finding jobs in the past. Also, any place that pierces 16 or under without parental consent is willing to break the law and if they're willing to break the law about something like that, you never know what else they're willing to break the law on. Be careful. A tattoo/piercing place in Buffalo NY was just all over the news for using dirty needles and anyone that got work done there had to be tested for HIV and Hepatitus and several people were positive. Is it really worth it? Just something to think about.Im 16 and i want my lip pierced..do piercing shops require you to have a parent or guardian with you?
some shops are diffrent. i know in my area you only have to be sixteen to do whatever you want with out a parent or guardian. but i know other places that require you to have your parent/guardian there. so if the thing is that you don't want your parents to know right away, talk to the shop first and find out what their policy is. then if parents are necessary, either tell your parents or live w.o your lip pierced haha and about the job thing, if your working in a coffee shop im sure its fine, but if you plan on going into a professional office they usually dont care for that lol
Just think about this before you do it:
If you ever decide you don't want the lip piercing anymore and remove it....after it heals you will have a dark spot where it was.
Most jobs in gas stations and convenience stores won't mind you having one, but beyond that I don't think many employers would hire you with mouth jewelry.
I do believe under 18 you need parental permission, but you could check at the piercing place....just phone them.
I'm not telling you not to do it....I'm just suggesting some things you might not have considered to help you make your decision. Good luck :))
As far as I know you have to be at least 18. Another thought for you and your parents is, who covers the medical expenses if your piercing was to get infected?
First appearance say volumes when applying for a job. You probably shouldn't wear your ring to a job interview.
My daughter had piercings done but when she pursued a job in law enforcement she had to let the holes close up.
if you look 18 then they will do it without a parent i think but most peircing shops require 16 year olds to be with there mam or dad. you could just lie and say your 18 and they would do it. i went without my parents so the store rang mymam to ask my age so they might do that.
yes yur not an adult to 18 so you will need them to go with you. but i love alip ring i'm sure it's gonna look super cute! are you gonna get in the middle just asking thats where i think it looks best! good luck!
Yes you have to have one or the other with you. I live in PA and you do, but other states do the same thing i don't know, but you should just to be safe.
don't do it, they look ridiculous, and lowers your position in societylast lipstick
and do most jobs accept them?Im 16 and i want my lip pierced..do piercing shops require you to have a parent or guardian with you?
ok. i started getting pierced at 17 because in NY the law is:
-16 and under require parental consent
-at 17 you just need valid ID and no genital piercings(under age) BUT many places chose not to do so
-18 do whatever you want
And the only facial piercing I have is my septum which I keep flipped up for jobs but I have 10 visible ear piercings and I've had problems finding jobs in the past. Also, any place that pierces 16 or under without parental consent is willing to break the law and if they're willing to break the law about something like that, you never know what else they're willing to break the law on. Be careful. A tattoo/piercing place in Buffalo NY was just all over the news for using dirty needles and anyone that got work done there had to be tested for HIV and Hepatitus and several people were positive. Is it really worth it? Just something to think about.Im 16 and i want my lip pierced..do piercing shops require you to have a parent or guardian with you?
some shops are diffrent. i know in my area you only have to be sixteen to do whatever you want with out a parent or guardian. but i know other places that require you to have your parent/guardian there. so if the thing is that you don't want your parents to know right away, talk to the shop first and find out what their policy is. then if parents are necessary, either tell your parents or live w.o your lip pierced haha and about the job thing, if your working in a coffee shop im sure its fine, but if you plan on going into a professional office they usually dont care for that lol
Just think about this before you do it:
If you ever decide you don't want the lip piercing anymore and remove it....after it heals you will have a dark spot where it was.
Most jobs in gas stations and convenience stores won't mind you having one, but beyond that I don't think many employers would hire you with mouth jewelry.
I do believe under 18 you need parental permission, but you could check at the piercing place....just phone them.
I'm not telling you not to do it....I'm just suggesting some things you might not have considered to help you make your decision. Good luck :))
As far as I know you have to be at least 18. Another thought for you and your parents is, who covers the medical expenses if your piercing was to get infected?
First appearance say volumes when applying for a job. You probably shouldn't wear your ring to a job interview.
My daughter had piercings done but when she pursued a job in law enforcement she had to let the holes close up.
if you look 18 then they will do it without a parent i think but most peircing shops require 16 year olds to be with there mam or dad. you could just lie and say your 18 and they would do it. i went without my parents so the store rang mymam to ask my age so they might do that.
yes yur not an adult to 18 so you will need them to go with you. but i love alip ring i'm sure it's gonna look super cute! are you gonna get in the middle just asking thats where i think it looks best! good luck!
Yes you have to have one or the other with you. I live in PA and you do, but other states do the same thing i don't know, but you should just to be safe.
don't do it, they look ridiculous, and lowers your position in society
Is it normal after being brain washed by parent to have an abortion ( due to age ) ?
to think about being a mother/ having a baby/ being pregnant, 24/7?
Its 1 and a half years later and i still think about this 24/7, i hate my self for doing what my dad said i had to do, and believing him that i could never do this. Is this normal? What should i do?Is it normal after being brain washed by parent to have an abortion ( due to age ) ?
Having an abortion is not the easy way out, as you have experienced. It is very normal to have these feelings of guilt. And my friend, it may never go away- however, there is forgiveness for an abortion, and if you can email and would like to talk, feel free to email me, I have counseled women that have gone through what you have. An abortion is something that effects the woman, even though some say that this is not the case.Is it normal after being brain washed by parent to have an abortion ( due to age ) ?
Your feelings are normal. You could talk to a counselor or maybe you could try to be a birth control advocate and try to imprint the importance of birth control to your peers. That may help you relieve your grief in knowing that you are helping other girls not have to go through the same thing you did. Let them know how awful you feel and that getting pregnant at such a young age isn't responsible. Getting pregnant again isn't the solution until you are okay with yourself for this. You won't be able to cover it up by trying to have a baby. You would also have to deal with more ridicule from your dad and that isn't what you need.
Yes, it's normal. How can you not think about it? It was a rough time for you...but you can't let what happened in the past prevent you from living your life today. If you need to talk about it, find a counselor, but try to just realize that what happened happened, and there's nothing to change it now,so dwelling on it will not help. It's good to never forget, though, it will help you to never make that mistake again. Try to find other things to occupy your mind, and that will also help you to move on.
You need to reach out to a professional counselor. You absolutely must get help. Make an appointment with your family doctor and discuss this with him/her. Ask for all the help you can get-- a referral to a good counselor and maybe a prescription to help you move on from this tragic experience.
its normal to feel like crap after getting an abortion... sorry tehres not really a better term thats the truth. mine was about 2 years ago almost and not a day goes by where i don't think about it
you could always try talking to someone? counselling to help you get over this etc.
im sorry you had to go through this, i wish you all the best!
hollyy
its beyond normal.... when you abort you have a sense of what if on your mind at all times because that was a part of you and if you're human you're supposed too and it will always be there in the back of your mind if you try to forget it.
Check out this website. There are many people that have your problem. I am so sorry he made you do that. Also call a doctor in your area, and see if they have support groups. Many larger areas have them. Good-luck and best wishes!!
yes...pregnant women that abort think about it a lot...
Its 1 and a half years later and i still think about this 24/7, i hate my self for doing what my dad said i had to do, and believing him that i could never do this. Is this normal? What should i do?Is it normal after being brain washed by parent to have an abortion ( due to age ) ?
Having an abortion is not the easy way out, as you have experienced. It is very normal to have these feelings of guilt. And my friend, it may never go away- however, there is forgiveness for an abortion, and if you can email and would like to talk, feel free to email me, I have counseled women that have gone through what you have. An abortion is something that effects the woman, even though some say that this is not the case.Is it normal after being brain washed by parent to have an abortion ( due to age ) ?
Your feelings are normal. You could talk to a counselor or maybe you could try to be a birth control advocate and try to imprint the importance of birth control to your peers. That may help you relieve your grief in knowing that you are helping other girls not have to go through the same thing you did. Let them know how awful you feel and that getting pregnant at such a young age isn't responsible. Getting pregnant again isn't the solution until you are okay with yourself for this. You won't be able to cover it up by trying to have a baby. You would also have to deal with more ridicule from your dad and that isn't what you need.
Yes, it's normal. How can you not think about it? It was a rough time for you...but you can't let what happened in the past prevent you from living your life today. If you need to talk about it, find a counselor, but try to just realize that what happened happened, and there's nothing to change it now,so dwelling on it will not help. It's good to never forget, though, it will help you to never make that mistake again. Try to find other things to occupy your mind, and that will also help you to move on.
You need to reach out to a professional counselor. You absolutely must get help. Make an appointment with your family doctor and discuss this with him/her. Ask for all the help you can get-- a referral to a good counselor and maybe a prescription to help you move on from this tragic experience.
its normal to feel like crap after getting an abortion... sorry tehres not really a better term thats the truth. mine was about 2 years ago almost and not a day goes by where i don't think about it
you could always try talking to someone? counselling to help you get over this etc.
im sorry you had to go through this, i wish you all the best!
hollyy
its beyond normal.... when you abort you have a sense of what if on your mind at all times because that was a part of you and if you're human you're supposed too and it will always be there in the back of your mind if you try to forget it.
Check out this website. There are many people that have your problem. I am so sorry he made you do that. Also call a doctor in your area, and see if they have support groups. Many larger areas have them. Good-luck and best wishes!!
yes...pregnant women that abort think about it a lot...
I need 3 reasons why living in a parent household is dififcult?
for who the parents or the kids?
parents = mooching kids, no privacy, people coming and going that you might not care to have in your home.
kids = having to live by thier rules, always in your business, unable to have overnight guests, no privacy.I need 3 reasons why living in a parent household is dififcult?
Rules, rules and rules. :)
parents = mooching kids, no privacy, people coming and going that you might not care to have in your home.
kids = having to live by thier rules, always in your business, unable to have overnight guests, no privacy.I need 3 reasons why living in a parent household is dififcult?
Rules, rules and rules. :)
What are some websites that offer good information on found-raising/Adoption/& Being a foster Parent?
Well, for foster parenting, you might want to try your state's website, probably under the health/human services department. That will give you information on requirements for becoming a licensed foster carer.
A good adoption website is www.informedadoptions.com It is a forum with many knowledgeable members who have adopted children and can help you through the process.
As far as fund raising, sorry, I don't have any suggestions for you on that one.What are some websites that offer good information on found-raising/Adoption/%26amp; Being a foster Parent?
What is found-raising? Do you hope to pluck a basket containing a baby out of a river one day?
Reaseach the primal wound, adoptee blogs and attachment disorders.What are some websites that offer good information on found-raising/Adoption/%26amp; Being a foster Parent?
I think you really need to research the basics of adoption more before you think about fund raising for it. Here are some sites for that and for foster adoption:
http://www.informedadoptions.com/
http://www.ethicanet.org/
http://www.adoptioninstitute.org/index.p鈥?/a>
http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/foster/
http://www.adoptuskids.org/
http://adopting.adoption.com/child/foste鈥?/a>
http://adoption.about.com/od/adopting/
http://www.foster-adopt.org/
I am an adoptee and adoptive mommy and have written an EXTENSIVE website about adoption (my favorite topic)
I think you will find the answers to everything you ever wanted to know about adopting an infant,child..or doing foster adopt.
Check our my fundraising section. Lots of good stuff from those of us who have been there!
I am a foster mother so there's a lot about foster parenting too!
adoptive-parenting.com
Call your local 'social service' state agency..and ask for information about being a foster parent. There are guidelines that have to be met as far as your age and your home conditions etc. If you think you can qualify and you want to try this..go for it. It's a good way to see if you can really bond to someone elses child...which is not as easy as you may think...even when adopting.
A good adoption website is www.informedadoptions.com It is a forum with many knowledgeable members who have adopted children and can help you through the process.
As far as fund raising, sorry, I don't have any suggestions for you on that one.What are some websites that offer good information on found-raising/Adoption/%26amp; Being a foster Parent?
What is found-raising? Do you hope to pluck a basket containing a baby out of a river one day?
Reaseach the primal wound, adoptee blogs and attachment disorders.What are some websites that offer good information on found-raising/Adoption/%26amp; Being a foster Parent?
I think you really need to research the basics of adoption more before you think about fund raising for it. Here are some sites for that and for foster adoption:
http://www.informedadoptions.com/
http://www.ethicanet.org/
http://www.adoptioninstitute.org/index.p鈥?/a>
http://www.adoptivefamilies.com/foster/
http://www.adoptuskids.org/
http://adopting.adoption.com/child/foste鈥?/a>
http://adoption.about.com/od/adopting/
http://www.foster-adopt.org/
I am an adoptee and adoptive mommy and have written an EXTENSIVE website about adoption (my favorite topic)
I think you will find the answers to everything you ever wanted to know about adopting an infant,child..or doing foster adopt.
Check our my fundraising section. Lots of good stuff from those of us who have been there!
I am a foster mother so there's a lot about foster parenting too!
adoptive-parenting.com
Call your local 'social service' state agency..and ask for information about being a foster parent. There are guidelines that have to be met as far as your age and your home conditions etc. If you think you can qualify and you want to try this..go for it. It's a good way to see if you can really bond to someone elses child...which is not as easy as you may think...even when adopting.
Is it required to live with your parent/s when on probation?
If someone is on probation at the age of 17, and they have to stay on probation until after the age of 18, will they be required to live with their parent/s or can they move out?Is it required to live with your parent/s when on probation?
Only if that was a requirement the Judge set for your probation. Check your file. The court papers will spell out the conditions of your probation. If you did not get a copy of those papers at your court date, then go to the court and request them.Is it required to live with your parent/s when on probation?
A probationer is required to follow the conditions of probation, which may include a requirement to live with the family, or it may include a ban on living with the family.
It will certainly be a requirement that the court and/or probation officer be notified of any proposed change of address.
What did the judge specify?
check with your parol officer. different for everyone
Only if that was a requirement the Judge set for your probation. Check your file. The court papers will spell out the conditions of your probation. If you did not get a copy of those papers at your court date, then go to the court and request them.Is it required to live with your parent/s when on probation?
A probationer is required to follow the conditions of probation, which may include a requirement to live with the family, or it may include a ban on living with the family.
It will certainly be a requirement that the court and/or probation officer be notified of any proposed change of address.
What did the judge specify?
check with your parol officer. different for everyone
Why is it important to have a parent-teacher partnership?
Because both have an adult responsibility for care of a minor, and it's important for them to be on the same page regarding his or her instruction.
The more parents understand the schools their children attend, the more they develop working relationships with their teachers, the better they can help their children understand what is required of them, academically and behaviorally.
It helps teachers and principals a lot to know, within reason, what the family dynamics of their students are, as well. Example: if it's known that a student is from a single parent household, and that parent is struggling with illness and finances, more effort will be made to go easy on the student, to offer extra help, to sign him up for free breakfast and lunch, etc. If nothing is known, a teacher might assume that a student is just being lazy.
Also, kids are known to tell parents one thing and teachers another; sometimes to be a completely different person at home and at school. When parents, teachers and students are seated around the same table, it's much harder for a kid to get away with playing both sides.
The more parents understand the schools their children attend, the more they develop working relationships with their teachers, the better they can help their children understand what is required of them, academically and behaviorally.
It helps teachers and principals a lot to know, within reason, what the family dynamics of their students are, as well. Example: if it's known that a student is from a single parent household, and that parent is struggling with illness and finances, more effort will be made to go easy on the student, to offer extra help, to sign him up for free breakfast and lunch, etc. If nothing is known, a teacher might assume that a student is just being lazy.
Also, kids are known to tell parents one thing and teachers another; sometimes to be a completely different person at home and at school. When parents, teachers and students are seated around the same table, it's much harder for a kid to get away with playing both sides.
What is ur favorite thing about being a parent?
I love being a mommy. its so rewarding. im just curious and would love to hear stories from anyone willing to share.What is ur favorite thing about being a parent?
WHERE DO I START????
Gordon, 7, is the fastest land animal at his school- including staff! If he were caught running thought the school zones, he'd get ticketed. He keeps asking to race me but I'm too afraid he'll win! He was recently awarded student of the week! Minnie, 5, has the most beautiful singing voice (to me anyway). She makes up songs about the silliest things- cows eating rainbows, little houses fitting in big cars, and the bald spots on my head. She sings in every recital and musical event at school. William, 3, can throw a baseball more than halfway across our back yard, cleans up after himself EVERY time- when he spills he cries ';Uh oh!';, runs for a towel, and chants ';hurry hurry hurry 'fore it gets bigger';, and does an excellent ';dad'; impersonation.
They all are bright, humorous, talented, beautiful, and mature. They are the most joyous little people to be around and it is a pure honor to be their father. Every single day they all give me something to be proud of. And if I have anything to do with all of this- THAT is what my favorite thing about being a parent would be!
I love my kids!
AnthonyWhat is ur favorite thing about being a parent?
watching my children grow and learn more and more each day. just seeing the wonder and excitement in their eyes when they are experiencing something new is one of the many joys of being a parent.
Cuddles, kisses, questions, acheivements, buddies, wonder, being the 'monster chaser', commitment, little hands, little feet, trusting eyes, all the mushy stuff.
I LOVE WAKING UP EVERY MORNING AND SEEING MY BABY GIRL. SHE IS SO AWESOME. I LOVE HER QUESTIONS. I LOVE WATCHING HER GROW AND SHE IS VERY INTELLIGENT. BEING A MOTHER IS THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME.
You get to know how to forget and forgive from the kids.
I love hearing their laugh, it just makes you smile! Its so sweet. I love seeing them learn new things, it makes you so proud. And i love being needed by them. It makes me feel special that they need me and i know they love me back. being a parent is a very cool thing.
Hearing their laughter
when you were a kid you also wanted your parents to listen and reward you... sometime you would not understand why they reject you... you might think they are mean or something... but now that you are a mother.. i think you will know better than anyone whats the best for your kids.. just like what your parents have gaven to you... its also great to see kids growing... each and every phase is always so full of memories... and no matter how grown up the kids are.. they are always ';mummy's best boy/girl';
When my son laughs, when we play, when i tell him i love him and he tells me ';i love you too much';. Being a mother is the greatest thing in the world.
Being a parent gives me a sort of reward every time they achieve something.My children follow my advice in to- to.I HAVE GIVEN THEM A GURU MANTRA---after achieving a grade,think of getting a higher grade and go after how to achieve it.And not to bask under the glory of the latest achievement.
The real thing of achievement is however the Grace of the Gurus and their sermons.Follow good ethics other things are just coming after you. You can watch it by following your own GOD'S teachings.I follow Sikh,religion,a few graceful points are like this.
In Sikhism ethics and religion go together. The inculcation of moral qualities and the practice of virtue in everyday life is a vital step towards spiritual development.Qualities like honesty compassion,generosity, patience,humility extra can be built up only by effort perseverance.The lives of the gurus show how they lived their lives according to their code of ethics.
The Sikh Religion rejects all rituals and routine practices like fasting and pilgrimage, omens and austerities. The goal of of human life to merge with GOD a is accomplished by following the teachings of the Guru,by meditation on the Holy Name and performance of acts of service and charity.
oh wow what a ?! where to begin.. I love everything about being a Mommy but thats everyones answer right. um if I had to pick my faves I would say the way my lil boy runs to me when he is tired and wants to be cuddled or just held and the cute out of the blue thing that he does or watching him do something for the first time. Its all so wonderful I wouldn't trade anything in the world for it; But i do have to say that my all time favorite thing is seeing him and his daddy curled up together and/or playing together just watching them is so sweet it sometimes brings tears to my eyes. Yeah I love being mommy!!
my daughter pointed out a rainbow a week ago.. I never would have noticed... I'm smiling thinking about it right now..
i love my kids dearly and i am their role model. i love teaching them things and doing things with them. we learn from each other and its great.
watching them grow up and learn everyday
painting/ drawing
singing/ dancing
taking photos
playing games
going out and being a family
hugs and kisses
unconditional love for each other
spending time with them each on their own
the way they interact with others
teaching them to count and learn numbers and colours
its never ending. we are always learning things everyday. no-one ever stops learning, even as parents we are learning each and every day
seeing my son smile, and watching him learn new things.
The unconditional love the children have for you
i love all my hugs and kisses. you can have the worse day in the world and they can tell and give hugs and kisses to make it better. or you can be so mad at them for doing something and give hugs and kisses and get out of trouble
i'm doomed
hugs and kisses here
My children are always there for me. My children are all adults now and life gave me some pretty hard blows by divorce. No matter what is happening I can call and hear them tell me how much I mean to them....even when I feel like I mean nothing to no one. I love my kids.
seeing my children laugh and happy. receiving hugs just because they want to give it to you and to here them say i love you is the best thing a mother can go through everyday for the rest of her life.
All the hugs and kisses
HAVING SOMEONE TO BE THERE FOR ME AND VICE VERSA...I LIKE TO DOTE ON HIM!
The sound of laughter from your child is like no other sound, It is awesome !
their smilelast lipstick
WHERE DO I START????
Gordon, 7, is the fastest land animal at his school- including staff! If he were caught running thought the school zones, he'd get ticketed. He keeps asking to race me but I'm too afraid he'll win! He was recently awarded student of the week! Minnie, 5, has the most beautiful singing voice (to me anyway). She makes up songs about the silliest things- cows eating rainbows, little houses fitting in big cars, and the bald spots on my head. She sings in every recital and musical event at school. William, 3, can throw a baseball more than halfway across our back yard, cleans up after himself EVERY time- when he spills he cries ';Uh oh!';, runs for a towel, and chants ';hurry hurry hurry 'fore it gets bigger';, and does an excellent ';dad'; impersonation.
They all are bright, humorous, talented, beautiful, and mature. They are the most joyous little people to be around and it is a pure honor to be their father. Every single day they all give me something to be proud of. And if I have anything to do with all of this- THAT is what my favorite thing about being a parent would be!
I love my kids!
AnthonyWhat is ur favorite thing about being a parent?
watching my children grow and learn more and more each day. just seeing the wonder and excitement in their eyes when they are experiencing something new is one of the many joys of being a parent.
Cuddles, kisses, questions, acheivements, buddies, wonder, being the 'monster chaser', commitment, little hands, little feet, trusting eyes, all the mushy stuff.
I LOVE WAKING UP EVERY MORNING AND SEEING MY BABY GIRL. SHE IS SO AWESOME. I LOVE HER QUESTIONS. I LOVE WATCHING HER GROW AND SHE IS VERY INTELLIGENT. BEING A MOTHER IS THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPENED TO ME.
You get to know how to forget and forgive from the kids.
I love hearing their laugh, it just makes you smile! Its so sweet. I love seeing them learn new things, it makes you so proud. And i love being needed by them. It makes me feel special that they need me and i know they love me back. being a parent is a very cool thing.
Hearing their laughter
when you were a kid you also wanted your parents to listen and reward you... sometime you would not understand why they reject you... you might think they are mean or something... but now that you are a mother.. i think you will know better than anyone whats the best for your kids.. just like what your parents have gaven to you... its also great to see kids growing... each and every phase is always so full of memories... and no matter how grown up the kids are.. they are always ';mummy's best boy/girl';
When my son laughs, when we play, when i tell him i love him and he tells me ';i love you too much';. Being a mother is the greatest thing in the world.
Being a parent gives me a sort of reward every time they achieve something.My children follow my advice in to- to.I HAVE GIVEN THEM A GURU MANTRA---after achieving a grade,think of getting a higher grade and go after how to achieve it.And not to bask under the glory of the latest achievement.
The real thing of achievement is however the Grace of the Gurus and their sermons.Follow good ethics other things are just coming after you. You can watch it by following your own GOD'S teachings.I follow Sikh,religion,a few graceful points are like this.
In Sikhism ethics and religion go together. The inculcation of moral qualities and the practice of virtue in everyday life is a vital step towards spiritual development.Qualities like honesty compassion,generosity, patience,humility extra can be built up only by effort perseverance.The lives of the gurus show how they lived their lives according to their code of ethics.
The Sikh Religion rejects all rituals and routine practices like fasting and pilgrimage, omens and austerities. The goal of of human life to merge with GOD a is accomplished by following the teachings of the Guru,by meditation on the Holy Name and performance of acts of service and charity.
oh wow what a ?! where to begin.. I love everything about being a Mommy but thats everyones answer right. um if I had to pick my faves I would say the way my lil boy runs to me when he is tired and wants to be cuddled or just held and the cute out of the blue thing that he does or watching him do something for the first time. Its all so wonderful I wouldn't trade anything in the world for it; But i do have to say that my all time favorite thing is seeing him and his daddy curled up together and/or playing together just watching them is so sweet it sometimes brings tears to my eyes. Yeah I love being mommy!!
my daughter pointed out a rainbow a week ago.. I never would have noticed... I'm smiling thinking about it right now..
i love my kids dearly and i am their role model. i love teaching them things and doing things with them. we learn from each other and its great.
watching them grow up and learn everyday
painting/ drawing
singing/ dancing
taking photos
playing games
going out and being a family
hugs and kisses
unconditional love for each other
spending time with them each on their own
the way they interact with others
teaching them to count and learn numbers and colours
its never ending. we are always learning things everyday. no-one ever stops learning, even as parents we are learning each and every day
seeing my son smile, and watching him learn new things.
The unconditional love the children have for you
i love all my hugs and kisses. you can have the worse day in the world and they can tell and give hugs and kisses to make it better. or you can be so mad at them for doing something and give hugs and kisses and get out of trouble
i'm doomed
hugs and kisses here
My children are always there for me. My children are all adults now and life gave me some pretty hard blows by divorce. No matter what is happening I can call and hear them tell me how much I mean to them....even when I feel like I mean nothing to no one. I love my kids.
seeing my children laugh and happy. receiving hugs just because they want to give it to you and to here them say i love you is the best thing a mother can go through everyday for the rest of her life.
All the hugs and kisses
HAVING SOMEONE TO BE THERE FOR ME AND VICE VERSA...I LIKE TO DOTE ON HIM!
The sound of laughter from your child is like no other sound, It is awesome !
their smile
How many men will claim to be the parent of Anna Nicole Smith's child?
Possibly hundreds because the baby stands to inherit about $400 million if the courts so decide and the dad will have control of that. Guess what, they'll all come crawling out of the woodwork for that kind of money.How many men will claim to be the parent of Anna Nicole Smith's child?
Many. Men without scruples. Just interested in money. The truth is that the child has only one father. And that nobody with humanitarian scruples and feelings would intent to enable a father-son relation.How many men will claim to be the parent of Anna Nicole Smith's child?
'Bout a thousand to a million.
I wonder if Vegas bookies are going to set the under/over line on the number of putative fathers that will come forward? (Imagine what kind of crap would be happening if we DIDN'T have DNA testing available! This is one case where, if they were lined up on the stage of MAURY, for one of those paternity test results shows, each and every guy up there would WANT to hear Maury Povich say, ';******... You ARE the father!';)
lmao, just about all of them.
WHO CARES
will this DNA fight lead to WORLD WAR....?
I am sure all that had a sexual encounter with her! Probably more as well being that she is not here to say that she didn't sleep with that guy.
6 to 8
thousand
With DNA, what good will it do them to look stupid? But 2 as we all know have come forth.
2 i think
3 so far.
67 men claim that but there is exactly no genetic trcing unless asking a relative.
I am waiting for Clinton to raise his hand?
Honestly is there a number that high???
I will.
I'm the daddy!!! Now give me my money. lol just playing i think that Anna was poisoned by her now widowed/ lawyer husband just so he can get all her money. OH do i smell mini series on ABC watch out I'm setting claim on the story line so if anyone want in on it hit me back.
Many. Men without scruples. Just interested in money. The truth is that the child has only one father. And that nobody with humanitarian scruples and feelings would intent to enable a father-son relation.How many men will claim to be the parent of Anna Nicole Smith's child?
'Bout a thousand to a million.
I wonder if Vegas bookies are going to set the under/over line on the number of putative fathers that will come forward? (Imagine what kind of crap would be happening if we DIDN'T have DNA testing available! This is one case where, if they were lined up on the stage of MAURY, for one of those paternity test results shows, each and every guy up there would WANT to hear Maury Povich say, ';******... You ARE the father!';)
lmao, just about all of them.
WHO CARES
will this DNA fight lead to WORLD WAR....?
I am sure all that had a sexual encounter with her! Probably more as well being that she is not here to say that she didn't sleep with that guy.
6 to 8
thousand
With DNA, what good will it do them to look stupid? But 2 as we all know have come forth.
2 i think
3 so far.
67 men claim that but there is exactly no genetic trcing unless asking a relative.
I am waiting for Clinton to raise his hand?
Honestly is there a number that high???
I will.
I'm the daddy!!! Now give me my money. lol just playing i think that Anna was poisoned by her now widowed/ lawyer husband just so he can get all her money. OH do i smell mini series on ABC watch out I'm setting claim on the story line so if anyone want in on it hit me back.
Do I have to be added to my parent's auto insurance?
I'm 19 and I just got my driver's license. Do my parent's have to add me to their car insurance. Does it make a difference if I am going to be driving their cars? Or do they not have to if I'm not going to be driving their cars? Basically what I'm asking, are they required to add me to their insurance no matter what? Like, is it a law?Do I have to be added to my parent's auto insurance?
If your living in their household and the vehicle are available to you, you either have to be listed or excluded.Do I have to be added to my parent's auto insurance?
If you have a valid license and live in your parents household, you must, by law, be listed on your parents auto insurance. To mbcratz1: It is a law! The insurance company MUST pay for any licensed driver that resides in the same household whether they are listed on the policy or not. The theory is that every licensed driver in the household has access to the car even if they do not have permission to drive it. If the insurance has to pay out on a claim for a member of the household who isn't listed, they will then cancel. On the other hand, the insurance company also has the right to raise the rates for any young driver who has a license, even if they never drive the insured car.
(This is for IL, but my apply to you) If you are going to drive, you need to be insured. If you are going to drive your parents vehicles (they are the owners and the cars are registered to them), you need to be added to their insurance. If you are going to drive your own car, you'll need your own insurance. If you are not going to drive, you don't need insurance, but can use your license as an ID. I would recommend joining with your parents because it is very expensive at your age to be a primary driver. As a secondary driver, you will get a discount. The law says that if you are driving, you or the car needs to be insured. (If you only drive a car once, you should be covered by the car, but if you are driving regularly, you need to have insurance for yourself). Insurance is confusing, and there are many types, so you should probably have your parents sit down with an agent to explain everything. After all, you're paying them a lot of money.
It's not a law, it's written into the policy. If you live in their house, and they don't add you, the insurance company doesn't have to pay. They don't pay for you, they don't pay for the car, they don't pay for the damage your car does to someone else. Your parents have to write the checks.
Yes, your parent's have to add you to their policy, if you drive one of their cars, or live in their house.
There is no law that says your parents HAVE TO put you on their insurance policy. That being said, you'll be better off in terms of how much you'll have to pay for insurance if you're on your parents' policy. If you try to get insurance yourself at 19 years of age it's going to cost you a fortune. It also makes things less complicated if you're going to be driving vehicles that are not registered in your name (like Mom or Dad's car).
No. They can instead list you as an excluded driver, and never allow you to drive their car. Otherwise they will have to list you as a secondary driver, assuming you still live at home at age 19.
If you have your own address it won't be a factor.
I think if you drive one of their cars either you have to have insurance that covers you in what ever car you drive or they need to add you to their insurance.
Not that I know of. It's probably better financially though for you. If they have a good driving record and add you, your rates should go down and because your 19 they should go down more.
now that youre over 18 they don't but i know that for teenagers insurance is expensive
If your living in their household and the vehicle are available to you, you either have to be listed or excluded.Do I have to be added to my parent's auto insurance?
If you have a valid license and live in your parents household, you must, by law, be listed on your parents auto insurance. To mbcratz1: It is a law! The insurance company MUST pay for any licensed driver that resides in the same household whether they are listed on the policy or not. The theory is that every licensed driver in the household has access to the car even if they do not have permission to drive it. If the insurance has to pay out on a claim for a member of the household who isn't listed, they will then cancel. On the other hand, the insurance company also has the right to raise the rates for any young driver who has a license, even if they never drive the insured car.
(This is for IL, but my apply to you) If you are going to drive, you need to be insured. If you are going to drive your parents vehicles (they are the owners and the cars are registered to them), you need to be added to their insurance. If you are going to drive your own car, you'll need your own insurance. If you are not going to drive, you don't need insurance, but can use your license as an ID. I would recommend joining with your parents because it is very expensive at your age to be a primary driver. As a secondary driver, you will get a discount. The law says that if you are driving, you or the car needs to be insured. (If you only drive a car once, you should be covered by the car, but if you are driving regularly, you need to have insurance for yourself). Insurance is confusing, and there are many types, so you should probably have your parents sit down with an agent to explain everything. After all, you're paying them a lot of money.
It's not a law, it's written into the policy. If you live in their house, and they don't add you, the insurance company doesn't have to pay. They don't pay for you, they don't pay for the car, they don't pay for the damage your car does to someone else. Your parents have to write the checks.
Yes, your parent's have to add you to their policy, if you drive one of their cars, or live in their house.
There is no law that says your parents HAVE TO put you on their insurance policy. That being said, you'll be better off in terms of how much you'll have to pay for insurance if you're on your parents' policy. If you try to get insurance yourself at 19 years of age it's going to cost you a fortune. It also makes things less complicated if you're going to be driving vehicles that are not registered in your name (like Mom or Dad's car).
No. They can instead list you as an excluded driver, and never allow you to drive their car. Otherwise they will have to list you as a secondary driver, assuming you still live at home at age 19.
If you have your own address it won't be a factor.
I think if you drive one of their cars either you have to have insurance that covers you in what ever car you drive or they need to add you to their insurance.
Not that I know of. It's probably better financially though for you. If they have a good driving record and add you, your rates should go down and because your 19 they should go down more.
now that youre over 18 they don't but i know that for teenagers insurance is expensive
What's it like to be a ';young'; parent?
Tell me the advantages and disadvantages of being a ';younger'; parent from your own experience.What's it like to be a ';young'; parent?
I became a mom at 19 and I'm glad I did. When my son is old enough to get into sports I will be young enough to keep up with him. And hopefully I will be refered as a ';cool'; mom instead of an old-fashioned one when he's a teenager.What's it like to be a ';young'; parent?
I think that as you must know, it all depends on the individual person. Personally, so far it has been an overall good experience. I got pregnant when I was 18 and I was 19 when my daughter was born. It is not easy but I do not think that it is ever totally easy for anyone. I was going to college and still am. It is hard when you are younger because most of the time you are not financially stable and you still have things that you yourself need to experience before having a young one to take care of. But it is a great thing. I am young but responsible. I do not feel as though I am really missing out on anything too important. I am still in school and my husband is a little bit older and luckily has been the provider of the family so I do not have to work and can go to school full time and stay home with the baby until I finish school. I look at it this way... when my daughter is 20 i wont have hit 40 yet. so hopefully ill be around for a long time to be able to be a part of her life. If you are responsible and mature and you are ready to stop living life just for you but instead for the life of your children, then parenting should be a positive experience.
My first child was born when I was twenty, he is now 40 years old and very well adjusted and has a family of his own. Just be a happy loving mother be patient and attentive. If you are uptight the baby feels and they get uptight too. Relax and love your baby while he is small. They get OLD SOOOO quickly.
I had a baby at 16, I didnt have any advantages. I have to say ';WAIT';!! Get your career going and your life in order before bringing a precious person into this world.
meant that kids would be grown when I was still young , good
not being settled in a good job , bad
im 18 and i turn 19 in september my first child is due october 22nd and i cant wait im probably as stable as ill ever be and me and my husband wanted to have a kid young so we could have more fun with it and grow older with our children then if we were to have one at 28 or 30 i guess we want to be greedy with the time we have left
hard. imagine taking your child EVERYWHERE you went. Think of the money thta would go into he/she.Only have a child if your ready and dont with college so it'll be fair for both you and te kid and youll be able to support s/he
I was 19 when I had my daughter. The down side is I missed out on school and going out and such. The plus side (aside from my daughter) is, it is easier to stay up all night with a screaming teething baby and go to work the next day when you are young. Almost 10 years later and I am pregnant with my second, and I know I can no longer do the stuff I was able to do back then.
I know I was more immature back then, but there were still things I could handle better then, than not.
I had my daughter when I was nineteen.
I was also a junior in college and I was married and we had a two bedroom apartment, so while it was exhausting, we had the means to raise her.
It's been difficult financially, but we've done it, and I'm glad we have. She'll be five tomorrow, and I'm 24 now... and having a hysterectomy next week. If I didn't have my daughter when I did, I never would have been able to have any.
I think that it's fairly easy to choose to have a career or a family, but it's tricky to have both. I think it's important to decide that in the event you can only have one, that you have the one that's more important to you. People who aren't sure if they want kids should focus on their careers, but there are people who know they definitely want kids who wait to start careers, and then have medical problems that leave them unable to have kids -- and they're devastated.
Now, I'm not advocating anyone having babies when they're in high school and living with their parents... but if it's really important to you, do it when you're financially able.
I was 19 and guess what NO FUN AT ALL. My friends were out having fun and guess what I was doing???Taking care of baby!!!! Sometimes I just wanted to leave....I wanted to be with my friends but I to be a grown up..It sucked...You can't even imagine how hard it is until you are right in middle of it. I was scared the daddy didn't help at all....So no college just work work work and stay at home. My father freaked out and kick me out of the house. My mom was deceased and no support. So I felt all alone. It can make you really angry and you could take it out on the baby. Please listen to me DON'T do it....
i am 13 and i watch my little brother all the time.i can tell you from the time i spend with him that he is the most annoying thing ever and never leaves me alone. he needs so much attention and it is hard for me to do the things i like when he is around. just make sure you have a lot of free time before having a child especially if you are young and want to go out with your freinds
I think since I have been both a younger and older parent I can tell a lot of differance. Being younger you have more time and energy to be there for your child. But, being younger I ended up feeling a little selfish about wanting some time for me when everything was about my son. Being older I dont have as much energy and I have to worrie more about the future.However I have lived and done the things I want to do. I am more focused on spending time with my child not going out and wasting it on ';fun'; things.
under 21, difficult and irresponsible....
I became a mom at 19 and I'm glad I did. When my son is old enough to get into sports I will be young enough to keep up with him. And hopefully I will be refered as a ';cool'; mom instead of an old-fashioned one when he's a teenager.What's it like to be a ';young'; parent?
I think that as you must know, it all depends on the individual person. Personally, so far it has been an overall good experience. I got pregnant when I was 18 and I was 19 when my daughter was born. It is not easy but I do not think that it is ever totally easy for anyone. I was going to college and still am. It is hard when you are younger because most of the time you are not financially stable and you still have things that you yourself need to experience before having a young one to take care of. But it is a great thing. I am young but responsible. I do not feel as though I am really missing out on anything too important. I am still in school and my husband is a little bit older and luckily has been the provider of the family so I do not have to work and can go to school full time and stay home with the baby until I finish school. I look at it this way... when my daughter is 20 i wont have hit 40 yet. so hopefully ill be around for a long time to be able to be a part of her life. If you are responsible and mature and you are ready to stop living life just for you but instead for the life of your children, then parenting should be a positive experience.
My first child was born when I was twenty, he is now 40 years old and very well adjusted and has a family of his own. Just be a happy loving mother be patient and attentive. If you are uptight the baby feels and they get uptight too. Relax and love your baby while he is small. They get OLD SOOOO quickly.
I had a baby at 16, I didnt have any advantages. I have to say ';WAIT';!! Get your career going and your life in order before bringing a precious person into this world.
meant that kids would be grown when I was still young , good
not being settled in a good job , bad
im 18 and i turn 19 in september my first child is due october 22nd and i cant wait im probably as stable as ill ever be and me and my husband wanted to have a kid young so we could have more fun with it and grow older with our children then if we were to have one at 28 or 30 i guess we want to be greedy with the time we have left
hard. imagine taking your child EVERYWHERE you went. Think of the money thta would go into he/she.Only have a child if your ready and dont with college so it'll be fair for both you and te kid and youll be able to support s/he
I was 19 when I had my daughter. The down side is I missed out on school and going out and such. The plus side (aside from my daughter) is, it is easier to stay up all night with a screaming teething baby and go to work the next day when you are young. Almost 10 years later and I am pregnant with my second, and I know I can no longer do the stuff I was able to do back then.
I know I was more immature back then, but there were still things I could handle better then, than not.
I had my daughter when I was nineteen.
I was also a junior in college and I was married and we had a two bedroom apartment, so while it was exhausting, we had the means to raise her.
It's been difficult financially, but we've done it, and I'm glad we have. She'll be five tomorrow, and I'm 24 now... and having a hysterectomy next week. If I didn't have my daughter when I did, I never would have been able to have any.
I think that it's fairly easy to choose to have a career or a family, but it's tricky to have both. I think it's important to decide that in the event you can only have one, that you have the one that's more important to you. People who aren't sure if they want kids should focus on their careers, but there are people who know they definitely want kids who wait to start careers, and then have medical problems that leave them unable to have kids -- and they're devastated.
Now, I'm not advocating anyone having babies when they're in high school and living with their parents... but if it's really important to you, do it when you're financially able.
I was 19 and guess what NO FUN AT ALL. My friends were out having fun and guess what I was doing???Taking care of baby!!!! Sometimes I just wanted to leave....I wanted to be with my friends but I to be a grown up..It sucked...You can't even imagine how hard it is until you are right in middle of it. I was scared the daddy didn't help at all....So no college just work work work and stay at home. My father freaked out and kick me out of the house. My mom was deceased and no support. So I felt all alone. It can make you really angry and you could take it out on the baby. Please listen to me DON'T do it....
i am 13 and i watch my little brother all the time.i can tell you from the time i spend with him that he is the most annoying thing ever and never leaves me alone. he needs so much attention and it is hard for me to do the things i like when he is around. just make sure you have a lot of free time before having a child especially if you are young and want to go out with your freinds
I think since I have been both a younger and older parent I can tell a lot of differance. Being younger you have more time and energy to be there for your child. But, being younger I ended up feeling a little selfish about wanting some time for me when everything was about my son. Being older I dont have as much energy and I have to worrie more about the future.However I have lived and done the things I want to do. I am more focused on spending time with my child not going out and wasting it on ';fun'; things.
under 21, difficult and irresponsible....
Is it legal to move out of your parent's house at 17?
What website can i find info on that sort of thing? I heard that a person can move out of their parents house at 17 if they let their parents know where it is that they're going, is that true? Whats up with this?!Is it legal to move out of your parent's house at 17?
There are too many variables including location, circumstances, and a few other things. If enough criteria are met, then yes. If not, then no.
Location: laws vary by location.
Marriage: regardless of age, married individuals are treated as majors and not minors. A married 10 year old does not have to do what parents say.
Age of majority versus age of emancipation. Oklahoma has confusing laws and traditions. The age of emancipation is known to be 18. The age of majority is still 21. In short, you are treated as an adult though you are not recognized as an adult at 18.
Court issued emancipation: provided you have legal counsel and good reason and means of support, you can petition the courts for emancipation. You will still be a minor, but you will be treated as an adult. You have to have a reason. You have to be able to support yourself. If you have a good reason but cannot show that you can support yourself then you may simply be placed in another home.
Too many other things. If you have a good reason, seek legal counsel. If not, then wait. It's not as bad as it seems in most cases. In others, get help.Is it legal to move out of your parent's house at 17?
i think you have to go through a court process to be legally separated from your parents...but without this you can probably just move out on your own, but you will still be considered under your parents' rule and they will technically own your place of residence.
Until you are 18 years old your parents are responsible for you, and to some degree, your actions. You CAN move out at 17 years old, IF you petition the court for emancipation. That means you go to court with your parents, and you ask that you be held responsible for your own actions, your own utilities, rent, food . . . and that your parents no longer be held responsible for you. Your parents do NOT have to agree with you, BUT you have to prove to the judge that you have a stable job, and are capable of making due on your own, in order to be emancipated (and even then, he/she may tell you to just wait a year).
You really have to state where you live as laws differ across the world.
whati have herd is dat u cud move out after u turn 16 but until ur 18 u need a signature sum shyt like dat frum dem
It depends on the state you live in. At 18 join the military that will get you out of there house provide money shelter and food and even schooling if you desire.
If you are not being physically abused hold out the year finish high school and then move on.
Depends on ya' state emancipation laws!!!
Here in Colorado we have no emancipation laws!!! Ya' stuck till min' of 18 yrs.!!!
Look up emancipation laws for ya' state!!!
The grass isn't always greener on the other side!!!
I was 17 when I moved out and I was classified as ';legally emancipated';. My mom didn't have to sign anything, but if I would have gotten into any trouble with the authorities, then I would have had to move back home and mom would have been held responsible.
Go figure.
Difficult to answer.Seems like some think it is for a bad reason you ask. Could this be a ';just curious'; question, or if it is a problem you're trying to get away from question, it depends. Just a little too vague for a definite answer...you could call the cop shop business, not emergency, line and ask.
if you can prove that you are responsible-support yourself with a job-some states allow that. if it is because you are whining about them giving you too many rules-suck it up and wait until your are 18.
It differs from State to State. The day you become an adult by law you can move out and they also lose any legal rights to make decisions for you. Google ';Age of Majority'; for your state. But it is probably 18 and in some states 19.
My oldest sister did, but my moms had to sign a paper authorizing the person she went to live with to get her health care and take care of her
you have to be 18 or older
Yeah, but why?
it is true in Georgia. depends on where u live i'm sure.
You have to be 18 to do it without permission. If they give you permission before, I would have them sign something stating so incase they decide later it wasn't the right decision and send the police after you. How will you possibly support yourself?
i tried that at 17 also! you cant legally move out of your parents house UNLESS you have THEIR permission. u are still considered a minor so they are responsible for you until your 18th birthday. if you are 17, u dont have much longer, be patient!
no, you are your parents responsibility until you are mature enough to take of yourself mentally and physically!
I moved out at 16 in the pouring rain, it just depends!
Check your local state laws. Should have a website for that.
It's unlawful, and you will be given ';runaway'; status. What you should do is contact a social worker, and ask them what you can do. You don't have to give your name, just tell them you need advice anonymously.
There are too many variables including location, circumstances, and a few other things. If enough criteria are met, then yes. If not, then no.
Location: laws vary by location.
Marriage: regardless of age, married individuals are treated as majors and not minors. A married 10 year old does not have to do what parents say.
Age of majority versus age of emancipation. Oklahoma has confusing laws and traditions. The age of emancipation is known to be 18. The age of majority is still 21. In short, you are treated as an adult though you are not recognized as an adult at 18.
Court issued emancipation: provided you have legal counsel and good reason and means of support, you can petition the courts for emancipation. You will still be a minor, but you will be treated as an adult. You have to have a reason. You have to be able to support yourself. If you have a good reason but cannot show that you can support yourself then you may simply be placed in another home.
Too many other things. If you have a good reason, seek legal counsel. If not, then wait. It's not as bad as it seems in most cases. In others, get help.Is it legal to move out of your parent's house at 17?
i think you have to go through a court process to be legally separated from your parents...but without this you can probably just move out on your own, but you will still be considered under your parents' rule and they will technically own your place of residence.
Until you are 18 years old your parents are responsible for you, and to some degree, your actions. You CAN move out at 17 years old, IF you petition the court for emancipation. That means you go to court with your parents, and you ask that you be held responsible for your own actions, your own utilities, rent, food . . . and that your parents no longer be held responsible for you. Your parents do NOT have to agree with you, BUT you have to prove to the judge that you have a stable job, and are capable of making due on your own, in order to be emancipated (and even then, he/she may tell you to just wait a year).
You really have to state where you live as laws differ across the world.
whati have herd is dat u cud move out after u turn 16 but until ur 18 u need a signature sum shyt like dat frum dem
It depends on the state you live in. At 18 join the military that will get you out of there house provide money shelter and food and even schooling if you desire.
If you are not being physically abused hold out the year finish high school and then move on.
Depends on ya' state emancipation laws!!!
Here in Colorado we have no emancipation laws!!! Ya' stuck till min' of 18 yrs.!!!
Look up emancipation laws for ya' state!!!
The grass isn't always greener on the other side!!!
I was 17 when I moved out and I was classified as ';legally emancipated';. My mom didn't have to sign anything, but if I would have gotten into any trouble with the authorities, then I would have had to move back home and mom would have been held responsible.
Go figure.
Difficult to answer.Seems like some think it is for a bad reason you ask. Could this be a ';just curious'; question, or if it is a problem you're trying to get away from question, it depends. Just a little too vague for a definite answer...you could call the cop shop business, not emergency, line and ask.
if you can prove that you are responsible-support yourself with a job-some states allow that. if it is because you are whining about them giving you too many rules-suck it up and wait until your are 18.
It differs from State to State. The day you become an adult by law you can move out and they also lose any legal rights to make decisions for you. Google ';Age of Majority'; for your state. But it is probably 18 and in some states 19.
My oldest sister did, but my moms had to sign a paper authorizing the person she went to live with to get her health care and take care of her
you have to be 18 or older
Yeah, but why?
it is true in Georgia. depends on where u live i'm sure.
You have to be 18 to do it without permission. If they give you permission before, I would have them sign something stating so incase they decide later it wasn't the right decision and send the police after you. How will you possibly support yourself?
i tried that at 17 also! you cant legally move out of your parents house UNLESS you have THEIR permission. u are still considered a minor so they are responsible for you until your 18th birthday. if you are 17, u dont have much longer, be patient!
no, you are your parents responsibility until you are mature enough to take of yourself mentally and physically!
I moved out at 16 in the pouring rain, it just depends!
Check your local state laws. Should have a website for that.
It's unlawful, and you will be given ';runaway'; status. What you should do is contact a social worker, and ask them what you can do. You don't have to give your name, just tell them you need advice anonymously.
Who is social security for, the child or parent?
If the child movs out who gets the check?Who is social security for, the child or parent?
The check is for the child. If you are receiving a check for your child and the child is living with someone else, you may want to think about letting the other person receive the check for the child. The check must be used to meet the current needs of the child. If the child is not returning you cannot use the check to pay your bills. If you do it would be considered misuse of the child's check and you will be made to repay the money to Social Security.Who is social security for, the child or parent?
What? If the parent is caring for a child and the child is under 18 (or maybe older if a full time student, I don't know) then they both should be entitled to a benefit, which probably comes in one check of direct deposit. The parent or representative payee should have received an award letter stating the amount of each benefit and the family maxium. However, if the child is no longer living with the parent, then the parent is no longer entitled. The best place to get the answer is the social security 800 number, which should be among the records.
the parent just like child support.the parent still should get the check until the child gets 18 i think...
The check is for the child. If you are receiving a check for your child and the child is living with someone else, you may want to think about letting the other person receive the check for the child. The check must be used to meet the current needs of the child. If the child is not returning you cannot use the check to pay your bills. If you do it would be considered misuse of the child's check and you will be made to repay the money to Social Security.Who is social security for, the child or parent?
What? If the parent is caring for a child and the child is under 18 (or maybe older if a full time student, I don't know) then they both should be entitled to a benefit, which probably comes in one check of direct deposit. The parent or representative payee should have received an award letter stating the amount of each benefit and the family maxium. However, if the child is no longer living with the parent, then the parent is no longer entitled. The best place to get the answer is the social security 800 number, which should be among the records.
the parent just like child support.the parent still should get the check until the child gets 18 i think...
Do you feel that you are a better parent as you go along?
I knew a lady that would say many times 'if I could have my kids again, I would do so much better. I wish I could do it all again'. My oldest is 8 and my youngest is 16 months, and I feel that I am a much much better parent and although I am one that refuses to regret things because they are meant to be but if I happened to go back in time and do it again, I would definitely do it differently, and better now.Do you feel that you are a better parent as you go along?
i think i am getting better. i strive to be a good no a great mom but i know as the years go by and i get older my ways of thinking change so yes i am getting better. as i look at the way things were in the past 10 years there is nothing i want to change. i think that even the bad things are what made me who i am today and if i change it, i didn't learn anything. Do you feel that you are a better parent as you go along?
I was very young when I had my kids who are now 14 %26amp; 11 and I KNOW I'm a better mother than I was when I started out. lol I remember that with my 1st son, once he was fed and cleaned I didn't have a clue as to what to do with him. I definitely enjoyed my younger son's infancy more. While it's still a learning process...every day my kids teach me something new!! lol I have very few regrets in the choices I have made for them or in regards to them. So far they are turning out pretty good with only a few bumps and scrapes. My biggest regret though: I wish that I had taken more time to stop and appreciate all those little moments when they were younger. They have grown so fast and one year seems to just melt into the next. I know now to appreciate the little moments but I didn't back then
I am an expecting father, and I know that going in I won't be a superb parent. I'm going to make mistakes, and I know that it'll happen. I can just hope that I improve over time, and become a decent parent for my child, or children if we have more. So, I have to imagine that what you've asked is true, that I will be a better parent as I get more practice with it.
Yeah, I do think I'm learning as I go along. I think that's why second children sometimes have it better than first borns. Their parents are smarter. Meanwhile, your first born kid keeps growing into new phases that you have to figure out.
I don't know if it would make a difference I really appreciate the learning experience and gee, with my daughter I think I'd be tested just as much and I don't need a do over, I'm already fearing when she's a teenager!!
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i think i am getting better. i strive to be a good no a great mom but i know as the years go by and i get older my ways of thinking change so yes i am getting better. as i look at the way things were in the past 10 years there is nothing i want to change. i think that even the bad things are what made me who i am today and if i change it, i didn't learn anything. Do you feel that you are a better parent as you go along?
I was very young when I had my kids who are now 14 %26amp; 11 and I KNOW I'm a better mother than I was when I started out. lol I remember that with my 1st son, once he was fed and cleaned I didn't have a clue as to what to do with him. I definitely enjoyed my younger son's infancy more. While it's still a learning process...every day my kids teach me something new!! lol I have very few regrets in the choices I have made for them or in regards to them. So far they are turning out pretty good with only a few bumps and scrapes. My biggest regret though: I wish that I had taken more time to stop and appreciate all those little moments when they were younger. They have grown so fast and one year seems to just melt into the next. I know now to appreciate the little moments but I didn't back then
I am an expecting father, and I know that going in I won't be a superb parent. I'm going to make mistakes, and I know that it'll happen. I can just hope that I improve over time, and become a decent parent for my child, or children if we have more. So, I have to imagine that what you've asked is true, that I will be a better parent as I get more practice with it.
Yeah, I do think I'm learning as I go along. I think that's why second children sometimes have it better than first borns. Their parents are smarter. Meanwhile, your first born kid keeps growing into new phases that you have to figure out.
I don't know if it would make a difference I really appreciate the learning experience and gee, with my daughter I think I'd be tested just as much and I don't need a do over, I'm already fearing when she's a teenager!!
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Is Parent's Choice Milk Infant Formula with lipids DHA & ARA is this the same as Similiac Advanced?
My baby was using similiac advanced but, it costs so much so we decided to switch formula.
What are lipids ?Is Parent's Choice Milk Infant Formula with lipids DHA %26amp; ARA is this the same as Similiac Advanced?
It is closer to Enfamil...but they are all just as good for the baby...and made with almost the same ingredients. I used it many times with my children when they were small, and we ran out of the WIC formula. I went to Walmart and bought this, because it was much cheaper. They were fine with it. They were on Prosobee and I used the Parent's Choice Soy. That is before all this Lipil stuff.Is Parent's Choice Milk Infant Formula with lipids DHA %26amp; ARA is this the same as Similiac Advanced?
They are very close ingredient wise, with only small differences. My son, however, noticed the difference immediately and we had to switch back to the expensive stuff. One of the formulas we tried, not sure it was parent's choice, had to be heated, too, which was different than the name brand. Here is a link that explains the lipids DHA and ARA, which are considered essentials for your baby's growth and development.
http://www.brightbeginnings.com/babynutr鈥?/a>
I was very happy w/parents choice formula. My now 5 year old son was on their soy formula , and hes a big strong boy!
They are all very similar in nature due to FDA guidelines.The ingredients vary by company. Luckily for us our Daughter liked the Parent'sChoice just fine. Be sure to sign up on Similiacs website for coupons it will help with the cost some.
No, they are not the same. Sorry but you get what you pay for.. My daughter is on Similac Advance and my friend had her baby on Similac Advance as well but switched to the Parents Choice to save some money. The first thing I noticed is how watery it is even when mixed right and the powder does not dissolve as well as Similac Adv does. The baby ended up with pretty bad constipation for a few days also. My friend ended up switching back to Similac Advance. It was funny, she wanted to save money on the formula yet her and her husband eat out almost every night of the week costing them four times what the formula does. Didn't make much sense to me.
What are lipids ?Is Parent's Choice Milk Infant Formula with lipids DHA %26amp; ARA is this the same as Similiac Advanced?
It is closer to Enfamil...but they are all just as good for the baby...and made with almost the same ingredients. I used it many times with my children when they were small, and we ran out of the WIC formula. I went to Walmart and bought this, because it was much cheaper. They were fine with it. They were on Prosobee and I used the Parent's Choice Soy. That is before all this Lipil stuff.Is Parent's Choice Milk Infant Formula with lipids DHA %26amp; ARA is this the same as Similiac Advanced?
They are very close ingredient wise, with only small differences. My son, however, noticed the difference immediately and we had to switch back to the expensive stuff. One of the formulas we tried, not sure it was parent's choice, had to be heated, too, which was different than the name brand. Here is a link that explains the lipids DHA and ARA, which are considered essentials for your baby's growth and development.
http://www.brightbeginnings.com/babynutr鈥?/a>
I was very happy w/parents choice formula. My now 5 year old son was on their soy formula , and hes a big strong boy!
They are all very similar in nature due to FDA guidelines.The ingredients vary by company. Luckily for us our Daughter liked the Parent'sChoice just fine. Be sure to sign up on Similiacs website for coupons it will help with the cost some.
No, they are not the same. Sorry but you get what you pay for.. My daughter is on Similac Advance and my friend had her baby on Similac Advance as well but switched to the Parents Choice to save some money. The first thing I noticed is how watery it is even when mixed right and the powder does not dissolve as well as Similac Adv does. The baby ended up with pretty bad constipation for a few days also. My friend ended up switching back to Similac Advance. It was funny, she wanted to save money on the formula yet her and her husband eat out almost every night of the week costing them four times what the formula does. Didn't make much sense to me.
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